Sick of getting hurt

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14 Jul 2018, 4:32 pm

I'm just never going to be good enough for anyone. I get this flicker of attraction from guys, but it never grows into anything.

I just feel like rubbish that no one wants

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14 Jul 2018, 5:04 pm

Maybe I have really awful hair or maybe I'm too fat... I don't know. Maybe I talk rubbish and talking to me is dull. Maybe I'm too negative. Maybe I'm getting too old.

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14 Jul 2018, 7:08 pm

I can't sleep. If I could just go to sleep o might feel better.

I was happy. And it was good for just a little while

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14 Jul 2018, 7:17 pm

I’m sorry you’re feeling this way.

I know you are not rubbish.

I know you are not fat.

I know you’re a good conversationalist.

Your possible problem: you’re too darn choosey

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14 Jul 2018, 7:22 pm

kraftiekortie wrote:

I’m sorry you’re feeling this way.

I know you are not rubbish.

I know you are not fat.

I know you’re a good conversationalist.

Your possible problem: you’re too darn choosey

Choosey is good!

Don’t ever settle just because you want to get married.

Ending up with the wrong guy is far worse than ending up single.

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14 Jul 2018, 7:23 pm

hurtloam wrote:

I can't sleep. If I could just go to sleep o might feel better.

I was happy. And it was good for just a little while

Have you talked to your doctor about the trouble you’re having with sleep?

I take something for sleep and it makes all the difference.

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14 Jul 2018, 7:29 pm

I agree. Choosey is good

But I still feel it’s more of a reason than any “bad qualities.”

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14 Jul 2018, 9:59 pm

I'm not choosey though. If anything I fall too easily and end up not being reciprocated.

It's only tonight I can't sleep. I just got rejected today.

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15 Jul 2018, 12:37 am

Unfortunately, it takes time finding the right person.

If they can't see what a catch you are, it's their loss.

Hope you feel better soon sweetheart.

*Hug*

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15 Jul 2018, 5:43 pm

I'm so sorry you are feeling lousy. I hope you can get some rest and get your spirits back up.

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15 Jul 2018, 6:01 pm

What kind of guy are you looking for?

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16 Jul 2018, 1:05 pm

Thank you all for your kind words.

Without going into specifics there was a huge misunderstanding and things are not as bleak as I thought.

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16 Jul 2018, 2:42 pm

Good to hear! I'm happy for you

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16 Jul 2018, 2:45 pm

I would be delighted if good news came Hurtloam's way.

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17 Jul 2018, 3:12 pm

Rejection really sucks, big time. I've experienced it many times. It's unfortunate that many people can't see beyond the surface of one's lack of social slickness, and see a fine character of someone who is generous, kind, gentle, creative, intelligent, etc. I'm speaking in generalities here, because I don't actually know you. I'm glad to hear that you and this person have cleared up a misunderstanding.

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17 Jul 2018, 6:58 pm

[quote="hurtloam" Without going into specifics there was a huge misunderstanding and things are not as bleak as I thought.[/quote]

This happens to me too. I'm glad it is moving in a positive direction.

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