why do I even bother

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I don't care for friends I love being friendless cos it doesn't bother me
but at work theres a man with asperger s he is lonely and want a friend and some off the other workers set me up to meet him in town for coffee not as a date (im married ) just as friends
I said no, at first but then I gave in so we met at 11 in town.but then someone from work saw us going into a coffee shop and he put it down to dating then told my husband
my husband got angry cos he knows i can be gullible and attractive so he got angry with me telling me not to meet this man again even as a friend

Not that im bothered cos I didnt want a friend anyway but what bothered me is having friendships is too complicated I dont know why everyone thinks I have to have friends

anyone agree?

i wont be preaching here. nobody should inflict anything on u, if u dont want it. friendship cant be well, made happen. it happens on its own accord, same as love. u dont chose it, not really. either a person clicks with u, or not. trying to make it happen brings frustration and dissapointment. all the panhuman values like friendship, procreation etc, can be somehow not be alluring to a certain individual, and that individual's right for solitude should be respected and protected same as any other civil right.
ur digital neighbour, S)