Traumatizing memory

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I use to have this friend who mistreated me a lot. It was a weird thing looking back on it. Anyway one of the worse things he ever did to me was he knew my mom had a crush on him (she made it very obvious) and he taunted me one time about it. That always struck with me because how personal and mess up the whole situation was. I have no ill feelings towards my mom because she is a good mom (not the brightest person tho) but if I bring this up to her. I will not accept her apology just because she could of hidden her lust instead of making it obvious. And I hate my former friend for the things he did and this is on the top of the list. I just wanted to get that off my chest because here is a person who done bad stuff to me and my mom had a crush on him. She didn't knew of course but still a memory that I tried to forget but can't.

if that person hurt u, intentionally at that, they never were ur friend. just a social predator who wanted to up their own self esteem at ur expense. this is called narcissistic abuse. i am sorry u had to go thru this. i really am. i've been there many times, i know what it feels like, in variety. just please never let that person near u again, or if u meet somebody else who will put u down and make u feel bad, evict them too. those ppl cant know friendship. hold on.

I haven't been near him in 2-3 years, he tried to reconnect with me a couple of times but I just ignore his messages. I only hangout him because he was my only "friend".Thanks for the nice message btw it means alot

yw, and gj on keeping safe)