My friend drives me crazy

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There is this guy who I am friends with, and all he does is talk about what his other friends are doing or come to me when his relationships go bad (because I understand him...which I don't). He always saying how nice I am and I am not like other people who betray him , although it's probably because I rarely seem annoyed and listen well. But he gets mad at me if I give my opinion on something and it is different then his and he says he's not mad but he acts different and it's bad enough I can't read voice or body English plus he keeps saying he loves me when he knows I am married and although he says it's friend thing I feel weird about it. I want to just stop ever talking to him but I have few friends and on top of that he plays World of Warcraft (the same server as me) and I can just move all my characters and every time I avoid him he drives everyone we have in common crazy asking what I'm doing and also when I'm on the game he will bug every guy I group with more then three times. He also acts like I need to be taken care of or watched like a little kid . What should I say to make him leave me alone , cause I tried saying I hate him and he won't believe me. Am I just seeing how he is acting incorrectly or is he really an annoying person? When i try and tell him what bugs me he makes me feel like I am being stupid and overreacting.

This guy is up to no good. You should tell your husband that this guy is bothering you, that he says he loves you, that he is obsessed with you. Your husband should have a talk with him and tell him to leave you alone. (no weapons, no violence) Your husband will want to protect you. He can also help you by going with you to the police station and asking about a restraining order.

Yeah I'm not liking the sound of this guy either.

On world of warcraft, take him off your friends list. That way it won't bug you and make you all nervous when he's in game. On the same button is a tab at the bottom, add his name and his other chars name to ignore. If he harrasses you in game, get a GM on him. If he's on my server I'll get em. I'll tell em I love him and I'm a guy, makes them nuts GM the better way though, just open a ticket.

My husband has talked to him now, and I will ignore him and not be friends with him any more. As for in world of warcraft my husband and I will play on alts he has never known were ours from now on, and I will report him if he becomes a problem like harassing people we know in common. I hope he can get the message I don't want to be friends anymore.I was just so upset and stressed all the time.