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TheSoullessWhisper
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08 Sep 2007, 6:30 pm

I've known this online guy from England for like 4 years, and I like him and he likes me, but he won't go out with me because I live to far away. So a couple of days ago I made a plan that he'd fly out to California and take me to prom. I even said I'd pay for his plane ticket AND prom ticket, and he said yes. I was so happy I started like freaking out. But than the next day come and he IMed me and said he's going to a Lamb of God concert that day and wont be able to make it. So I cried all day that day and til 12 in the afternoon on the next day. I guess thats what I get for trusting someone online.....



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08 Sep 2007, 6:38 pm

Have you discussed your feelings with him? You should let him know how you feel.

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08 Sep 2007, 6:42 pm

I tried that...
he just ignored me...
but I'll try again



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08 Sep 2007, 6:49 pm

If this guy continues to ignore you, dump him already!


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08 Sep 2007, 6:50 pm

I would recommending trying again. If he listens, he will see that you care about him. If he doesn't, he's not the right guy for you.

This is very similar to what happened to me at my senior prom.

I hope everything works out for you, whatever happens.

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08 Sep 2007, 6:51 pm

Yeah but it isnt that easy...
I known him for a long time...
but I guess your right...
I'll just go to the prom with a freshman girl lol

And I will try again <3



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08 Sep 2007, 6:59 pm

Ive already learned this the hard way, long distance relationships never work out unless your going to end up living with them or something. Seriously, unless he feels the exact same way you do about him its just not gonna happen, sorry to break your bubble :( Ive been hurt so many times this way its not even funny, even if I do end up meeting them, but thats just because Im a loser :roll:



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08 Sep 2007, 7:02 pm

yeah i guess u all are right...*sighs*
i just ....
thought he would



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08 Sep 2007, 10:14 pm

It's not even about long distance relationships. If someone does things to indicate they don't care about your feelings, they aren't worth your time and mental energy. Try talking to him and if he still acts like a selfish jerk, jump him. You deserve better.



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08 Sep 2007, 10:25 pm

I wouldn't turn down a date for Styx in they're high point!
make him choose-Lamb of God or you...



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08 Sep 2007, 10:26 pm

Plus LOG is a sh***y band anyway, you should dump him just for that :lol:



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08 Sep 2007, 10:31 pm

What kind of music is Lamb of God?

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08 Sep 2007, 10:33 pm

Motherf***er ditched you for lamb of god? What an a**hole. He obviously doesn't care about you as much as he says he does. I hope you find someone else who actually cares about you to take you to prom.

Tim - Lamb of God is a sh***y metal band from the south enjoyed by angry confused 15-year olds who like to chug Red Bull and jump around on their step-mom's sofa.



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08 Sep 2007, 10:44 pm

Todd489 wrote:
Motherf***er ditched you for lamb of god? What an a**hole. He obviously doesn't care about you as much as he says he does. I hope you find someone else who actually cares about you to take you to prom.

Tim - Lamb of God is a sh***y metal band from the south enjoyed by angry confused 15-year olds who like to chug Red Bull and jump around on their step-mom's sofa.


Ah, I see.

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09 Sep 2007, 11:48 am

Todd489 wrote:
Motherf***er ditched you for lamb of god? What an a**hole. He obviously doesn't care about you as much as he says he does. I hope you find someone else who actually cares about you to take you to prom.

Tim - Lamb of God is a sh***y metal band from the south enjoyed by angry confused 15-year olds who like to chug Red Bull and jump around on their step-mom's sofa.


Yeah i guess your right....
Thanks for caring u guys...
really makes me feel better<3



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09 Sep 2007, 1:13 pm

you probably like good music BTW :P
LOG sucks ass!! :D