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TheMidnightJudge
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20 Jan 2008, 7:13 pm

It's worthless...WORTHLESS. But it's still there and for some reason I feel like all of my grievances need be expressed, even though it wouldn't change anything if I did. That'd just be destructive right?
There's this person in my life who's very dramatic, aside from the things she's done to me in the past.
And right now it just pisses me off. Whenever I hear anything about the loss of innocence or apples or adam and eve or Satan or witchcraft or mythology or astrology or drugs or psychosis or whoever the last guy she f**ked was, it peeves me.
Towards the end of a highschool drama, I built up a lot of resentment for her, and I wonder if I should even be her friend.
I've tried distancing myself but if I do that she just seems to want to be closer to me.

Well consider that a vent.



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20 Jan 2008, 7:26 pm

well, if she's that much trouble, you don't have to hang with her.



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20 Jan 2008, 7:27 pm

A classic example of why I don't particularly enjoy getting close to others.
Sometimes, people can be "clingy" and unfortunately it's hard to see at first until you really get to know the person. I have to admit, hearing about peoples sex life is something I don't enjoy, either. Again another unfortunate trait of humans...they like to brag.
If you built up resentment towards her, I don't see any reason why you should try to be her friend. She seems like she is doing nothing more than bringing you down. Tell her directly that you want to have no more contact with her. It's better to end the friendship earlier, than drag it on for years to come, only for her to find out one day that it was unwanted and become even more hurt.


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