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30 Nov 2007, 10:31 pm

Well, today once again I have been told by my dad that I need to start thinking about "life". Why? Because all I do is use the computer, play video games and do homework (and also going out with friends when the opportunity rises). He says to find more interests, because if I don't I won't be able to get through life. The problem is I find it hard to find other interests, I love using my computer and doing many cool things with it, but I just can't seem to think of anything else to do. He also says that I have no motivation to try anything.

Is this my Aspergers Syndrome thats doing this, or is it just me being stupid?. Sometimes I feel pretty useless. I'm 15 and I need to find a job, but I don't have time thanks to school. I have a paper route that I do to make money, and I want to find a job that I can feel comfortable in.

Someone please help me out.



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30 Nov 2007, 10:34 pm

Doesn't one have to be 16 to have a job?

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30 Nov 2007, 10:38 pm

Here in Canada, you can get a job at 15 but most jobs require you to be 16.



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30 Nov 2007, 10:38 pm

Sorry, I thought you were in the U.S.

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30 Nov 2007, 10:39 pm

Ai, no problem.



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01 Dec 2007, 5:28 am

What sort of things do you do when you are sitting by the computer? A computer is not one single hobby, there's plenty of different things you can do by it. It's like a small world of opportunities. Is your father aware of this? I have faced similiar critique, but have been able to at least get my mother to understand how essential the computer is.



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01 Dec 2007, 12:35 pm

I manage my website(s), listen to a lot of different music, and research things on Wikipedia (which I find I do a lot these days, wikipedia is like a god send).



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01 Dec 2007, 3:44 pm

In my opinion you're using the computer for learning. Parents tend to like the word "learn". Try using that around the topic of computers.



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01 Dec 2007, 6:15 pm

Ok, thank you for your advice.



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01 Dec 2007, 8:48 pm

you sound like you do more then most kids your age :?