Questioning sexuality

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At the moment I am questioning my sexuality. I am 27 and have had a couple of non serious boyfriends in the past but never loved them or felt particdularly comfortable with them. In high school I never found guys "cute" or felt interesting talking about guys like the other girls did I went to an all girls school. On the other hand I have never felt sexually atracitive to any girl either. I am kinda a tom boy I prefer to wear pants and play sport than frilly dresses!! ! any advice to me

Well:

Try going out with a girl? This can be fun, because it doesn't have to be sexual. Try finding a girl who could be attractive, and trick them into thinking you are trying to build a friendship. See if you get attracted to them? Frankly I Think this would be easier than actively trying to pursue all out lesbians. It can even be a straight friend -- it doesn't matter. I'm going to hell...

I'm aware of a couple of people that are pretty much non-sexual. Have you ever been attracted to anything reasonable (Johnny Depp excluded)? try looking into different kinds of sexuality, including pan-sexuality, see if any fit?

P.S. if you score with the female friend, record it for me
(I am going to hell...)

I have been forever questioning my sexuality...trust me, I know how frustrating it is! I have come to the conclusion that I am asexual. I'm not attracted to men or women, have never had any of the so called "natural sexual urges" either.
I think that you should think about your thoughts. Do you ever walk past a guy and think..."Oh, hes cute". Do you ever walk pasted a woman and think..."Oh, shes cute". Just think whether or not you have ever starred at someone of any gender, looking at aspects of their body. Lol I know i'm not great at giving advice on this sort of stuff...but I hoped I helped.

maybe you're asexual, like me. hey, look on the bright side: if you are, you won't suffer as much as you would if you were gay. but still, you'll probably suffer (like everyone who is different in any way).

seems like there are many Aspies that consider themselves asexual. i consider myself straight, but i rarely feel physically attracted to men, don't get many "crushes." women are much prettier to look at, but i wouldn't want to have sex with one. sometimes i feel distressed about it and wish i had more capacity for both love and lust.

i don't have any great advice... i just keep my fingers crossed and hope that i'll eventually meet someone that i'll feel something stronger than blah about.

I have never felt like I loved someone liked them sure but not loved. I do prefer girls to look at however.