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Liverbird
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29 Jan 2008, 5:58 pm

I hate it! It's so discriminating! It's so unfair. I'm so depressed! I want to scream but I don't think it will help. My whole life just sucks. None of them get it. They all want to turn the whole situation around to make me the bad guy and make it look like I'm wrong. No one wants to look at how we got here. No one cares but me. They've messed up my whole life and my son's whole life and they just don't care, or get it or anything.

I'm having a major meltdown. It sucks. I want to give up. It's so not worth it. They've set me up to fail and I'm failing and they are all patting themselves on the back like they did something spectacular. You made the Aspie kid cry. Good job. Every one wants patted on the back for what a spectacular job they did. I'm not feeling so happy. I'm not getting my way.

I hate court. I hate them all. I just want to run away. I can't cope with all of this.


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31 Jan 2008, 9:37 am

I'm not sure what you are talking about, but I can tell you I hate court too. Unfortunately, it sometimes (or maybe many times) seems like the place to go so that NTs can tell you how to act...Seems most laws are made for NTs...hmmm...

All I can say is find a good lawyer if you need to go to court. Yes, that's hard to do. I was very lucky two days ago to have an amazing lawyer, who ALSO thought people with autism were amazing and that they were actually superior to many others...and just being broken by the the schools, society, etc...

You'll have to talk to many of them before you find one who gets it...but when you do, you'll be thankful.

As I say, some cheap lawyers charge you 500USD an hour, and it takes them 20 hours to go through anything...and then some charge 1000USD an hour and they get things resolved in an hour! So, don't look at money as much as the character of the lawyer...

Good luck...



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31 Jan 2008, 11:04 am

I have to look at money. I don't have any. This case has bled me totally dry. I can't cope with anything and my life is a complete mess because of it. I have that instinct to just close up and I still have to deal with it all. It gets to be too much. I haven't been able to find a good lawyer, I don't think there are any.


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01 Feb 2008, 5:13 am

try legal aid or some service like that. there are good lawyers, there has got to be one that will act no charge or a lower price out there. someone that knows what is happening.