Maybe it's me...

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I think I just drive people off I tend to eventually annoy everyone but my family and husband, (my husband is an aspie we seem to be able to listen to each others obsessive topics rather well without getting annoyed) to no longer being friends with me I sometimes obsess on topics and it eventually bugs people , I wish the would either leave me alone when I have to be obsessed about something or understand I have to talk about that thing to either think it out or because it's something I can't seem to stop.

Recently I had to end a relationship with a friend who was kind of abusive and everyone else thought so but I felt upset and have a hard time letting people go even if it's for the best so although I ended the friend ship now another friend is tired of me trying to figure out what went wrong and since I can't seem to clear it from my head they will no longer talk to me. Almost everyone eventually just hates me. Now I only have two friends left and I never know how to deal with this kind of thing I feel really sad now.

I wish i would just stop being so annoying ,It's so hard to control it, and keep every topic to normal social things, and not just go on and on. How do people learn to act normal I just can't keep it up long.

Well if you figure it out, let me know. All I've managed is to just not talk to people. Of course this means I only have a very few friends. I would like more, of course.

I feel the same way. I wish I could help, bt maybe knowing someone else is in the same position you are is enough of a comfort. I wish I could talk about my obsessions all day long but i run out of people to annoy. its frustrating!