I know how you feel. I haven't been banned yet but I've significantly reduced my presence here due to problems with NTs and their apologists on this site rebuking me for being truthful about my experience with them. They feel that I should not speak the truth because it might hurt their precious feelings, so now I, too, have nowhere that it's safe to be honest. They supposedly have an Aspie in their lives and do not want to hear that being an Aspie is not all roses because they do not want to face reality. They may be right; their Aspies, growing up in a world where they are diagnosed, may have a very different experience than I have had with the NTs judgementalism and self righteousness.
This became a place not for us shortly after we learned that Alex was finding this site very expensive to maintain; I think he had to advertise it in more places and that's how we attracted all these people who are not Aspies and who immediately tried to impose their NT demands for "normalcy" on us here as they do IRL. I have no help to offer, but I do sympathize. ((((aspiebeauty87)))) Don't hate yourself, you're awesome.