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16 Oct 2008, 9:23 pm

I don't let anyone touch me.



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16 Oct 2008, 9:45 pm

I let some people touch me, but if they touch me the wrong way or unexpectedly, then I won't like it very much.
Light clammy touch drives me NUTS 8O


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16 Oct 2008, 9:57 pm

I only let my fiance touch me when I touch him first. Amazingly, he respects that boundary and puts up with it.



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16 Oct 2008, 10:53 pm

I have been having trouble with not liking it when Flakey touches me...and I can't even pretend to like it...it raises my hackles...He is either too pokey or too clammy...and he loves going for the places where I hate being touched the most..like my belly...

I wish there was something I could do about it.

As far as kinfolk go......I don't like being touched by my parents either.
Don't know why...


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16 Oct 2008, 11:05 pm

I don't like to be touched by most adults. I'm mostly okay with children, but I have to keep telling my oldest grandson NOT to stroke my arm. I can actually get a welt from that, don't ask me why.



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16 Oct 2008, 11:19 pm

I know what you mean, I hate getting poked, and then the other person gets offended when I don't like it.. what the hell?