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This is so unfair!

I try to make friends with this person who fell out with me for no reason, I talk to himm and say I like socialising with him and we should be friends.

3 days later, he deletes me off his friends again with no reason given, just like last time!

I told him not to f#ck about with my emotions and he is a horrible person.

Another thing: whenever I say something about myself he says: "everybody does that." then he sighs. Has this got anything to do with it?

Probably.

Repeat after me: Life is not fair.

As unfair as it is, you need to learn to let these things roll off your back. It's hard, oh it's hard, but you cannot control what other people do and you need to let them be who they are even if you never understand it.
One of my mantras is: Most people are stupid. Meaning to me that they can't help doing stupid things. Since I do stupid things too, that let's me forgive and move on.

That helps, thanks.

Are you a teacher, or something along those lines? lol

I know life isn't fair. What is some people's Heaven is some people's hell, and while I appreciate there are people in worse situations than me, I do feel like I am in hell sometimes.

ok, ok he replied.

He seemed more reasonable.

He is sorry.

He says being my friend could cause future problems worse than falling out.