Argh, I've had it

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Another girl I thought was cool I got in a fight with.

It starts off today when I get in a conversation with her. She says she has something to say, but wants someone else to do it. So she tries to get my friend to do it, but he doesn't want to, he says he doesn't want to hurt me (more about this later). Anyways, she eventually pulls in her other friend, and her other friend tells me that she does not like me (or love me) anymore. This hurt, but I was understandable about it, so I simply said "ok, whatever cool". But then, she started swearing and cursing at my friend, and I couldn't take that so I left the conversation (this was all on MSN by the way)

Then my friend posts a log of her totally swearing and cursing at him for not telling me about what she had to say, and she started putting him down and stuff. So, I got really pissed off and I yelled at her. She got pissed off then and then we got in a big fight, she even dragged her friends in, and my friend came in as well. Her friends start bitching at me.

We exchanged some really bad words, she called me a loser, I called her a b***h, I was called twisted etc. She got a boy in to defend her, saying he was going to "beat me up" (which is doubtful, this never happens). So, anyway, bad words are exchange and then I leave, stating it as a waste of my time.

Then, I bring up another conservation about 10 minutes later. I tell her that I calmed down a bit, and that I sort of understand what she's going through (she said she was confused about who she liked, which is why I was dumped, so she dumped every boy she liked including her bf), but I also told her to not yell at my friend for simply not telling me this one thing. She did not reply.

Anyways, I admit I regret saying a few things, but this is yet another screwed up friendship. Oh well. Now I'm a "twisted" person", a "loser".

If she wanted to dump you she should have done it herself instead of getting someone else to do it.
it is poor to get someone else to and then put them down for not doing it.

Nova, don't let people like that define who you are. Define yourself for yourself and let them rot.

Aw, I hate it when that happens. Two past best friends did the same sort of thing to me, except it was to my face. I forget the things they called me, I grew quite expert at blocking out the bad things in my life. When I try to remember my past, there's a scarily large amount of blank stretches!

She doesn't sound like the kind of person you'd want to be friends with anyway.

btw, I am twisted sideways and quite proud of it.

Well, she apologized to me (over MSN), so now we are friends again. Eh, I'll give her another chance. I've lost quite a lot of my love for her, so..yeah. Just friends.