I dont want my mom to die!! !! !! !! !! !! !! !

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12 Jan 2009, 11:20 pm

Why isent she getting better she cant die!

I dont want her to go. My life has been so hard why is this heepning to me! :cry:



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13 Jan 2009, 12:11 am

She will be in my prayers. I pray she doesn't die. What does she have?



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13 Jan 2009, 12:12 am

I read in another thread that you're not a Christian. Now would be a good time to convert. Only the true God of Christianity can heal your mother now. My older sister was on her deathbed, yet miraculously recovered when my parents converted to Christianity while she was in the hospital. Do yourself and your mother a favor and start praying to God - the real one. In the meantime, I will pray for you both myself; I hate to see a fellow autistic person suffer.



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13 Jan 2009, 12:53 am

I think that the faith and love you have is as strong as believing in any God. I cannot know what it feels like to be in your position though I imagine it is very difficult. I still pray for your mom and you. And I wish your mom was in better health. You can always send me an email if you need to get things out, I will try to help as best I can. You're an amazing person and it makes me sad you have to go through more hard times. Just don't stop believing.



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13 Jan 2009, 2:51 am

Just me, I am sorry your mum is so sick. I didn't realise.



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13 Jan 2009, 5:21 am

the best you can do is be there for your mother and ask the doctors what could help. sometimes death takes place and there's nothing we can do about it, what's important is the time we have left and how we spend it.


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13 Jan 2009, 8:36 am

I know it's hard to loose someone you love. I pray for you and your mom. However, know that if she does pass, she has gone to a better place, and eventually you will be with her again. We are only on this earth for a short time. As you may already know, I have recently re-experienced the loss of someone I loved. These thoughts, along with all the people left that I still care for, are what helped me through that tough time.



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13 Jan 2009, 11:04 am

FireBird wrote:
She will be in my prayers. I pray she doesn't die. What does she have?


She has copd , but thats not what the current problem is.

Everything she eats passes through her system before her body can absorb it,
so she keeps loosing weight. She is 98 or 97 pounds now.

The doctors dont know what is wrong, she is going to another doctor on thursday so I'm praying they can help her.

I was crying my eyes out last night about her health.



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13 Jan 2009, 11:17 am

IdahoRose wrote:
I read in another thread that you're not a Christian. Now would be a good time to convert. Only the true God of Christianity can heal your mother now. My older sister was on her deathbed, yet miraculously recovered when my parents converted to Christianity while she was in the hospital. Do yourself and your mother a favor and start praying to God - the real one. In the meantime, I will pray for you both myself; I hate to see a fellow autistic person suffer.


I do not consider myself a christian because they do not accept that magic can be a gift from god and can be good.

I do believe in god . I think everyone prays to the same god even if they are not christian . I share some of the views you do but not all of them.

God has made many miracles in my life so I know if it is ment to be this will get better. And if it dosent then it happend for a reason and it was ment to be.

Thank you for praying for me! I want you to know I have very strong faith that god does exsist and he can and will answer if it is in my destany.

I know that your trying to convert me to help me, and I thank you for that. But I must decline. Just know I believe in your god and I do pray to him all the time and my faith is almost unbreakable.



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13 Jan 2009, 11:18 am

WaterWater wrote:
I think that the faith and love you have is as strong as believing in any God. I cannot know what it feels like to be in your position though I imagine it is very difficult. I still pray for your mom and you. And I wish your mom was in better health. You can always send me an email if you need to get things out, I will try to help as best I can. You're an amazing person and it makes me sad you have to go through more hard times. Just don't stop believing.


Thank you so much water water!
I will send you and email or pm later.

thank you so much! your such a good friend!



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13 Jan 2009, 11:20 am

lucy1 wrote:
Just me, I am sorry your mum is so sick. I didn't realise.


Thats ok. Thankyou for caring it means alot to me that people care!



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13 Jan 2009, 11:30 am

familiar_stranger wrote:
the best you can do is be there for your mother and ask the doctors what could help. sometimes death takes place and there's nothing we can do about it, what's important is the time we have left and how we spend it.


Yes , Thats why I have been going over to my parents house as often as I can to viset her.

I am also going to disneyworld with my mother in march for my birthday.

Disney is her favoreat place in the world so I bought her a ticket hoping it will help lift her spirits and help her get better.

I hope she will get better , she says she will be well by then. I hope she is right!

At the very least it gives her somthing to hold onto. I beleive if you are surounded by happy things it helps your chances of recovery.

A lady at my church cured her own cancer just through the power of positive thought! So I am trying to make my mother positive in hopes it will help.

I think at night I get very upset about it all because I think more then.

The doctor thinks it is a bactereal infection or somthing so when she goes to see the doctor they will give her antibiotics. I hope this helps!

Thank you for your prayers and thoughts they do help and will cure her if it is ment to be. So thank you so much all of you!! !! !! !!!1



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13 Jan 2009, 11:43 am

kc8ufv wrote:
I know it's hard to loose someone you love. I pray for you and your mom. However, know that if she does pass, she has gone to a better place, and eventually you will be with her again. We are only on this earth for a short time. As you may already know, I have recently re-experienced the loss of someone I loved. These thoughts, along with all the people left that I still care for, are what helped me through that tough time.


I know she will be in a better place if she goes , I will miss her so much and thats what's hard.

I also worry I will have to commit myself into a hospital for a week or two if I cant handel it. The rest of my family do not understand me and I do not think they will help me if I am sad.

I do have my boyfriend in the uk though. I hope that he can help even though he is far away.

I wont try and hurt myself or anything like that . I just might need to check myself into a hospital just because I will be a compleat mess and I dont want my family to start thinking I'm crazy again. ( my father dosent like emotion) and he will try and commit me anyways.

My mother is the only one in my family that was half way decent. She kept my father from throwing my on the street many times.
I did get kicked out but my mom toled me she was trying to talk my dad out of it. And she toled me I can go back home if I ever want to.

I have a bad past with my dad but I feel it is in the past now.

The point is my mom is the only one that truly cares about me in my family. After she is gone I will be alone, and the only one who will still be there for me is my boyfriend.

I'm very scared of being alone. I can't take care of myself without help so I'm worried.



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13 Jan 2009, 11:58 am

the woman at your church is one of the very few lucky people who understand how staying positive can have positive results, i read about a woman who survived cancer for years when every doctor said she wouldn't make it and she passed when her and her family were ready.

stress depression and anger are negative emotions that have a negative effect on the body whereas staying positive has a positive effect on the body, it might be hard to keep a smile on your face but it should helpthe both of you.

i wish your mother the best of luck, and hope the doctors find the cause and manage to treat it in time.


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13 Jan 2009, 12:13 pm

just-me wrote:
I also worry I will have to commit myself into a hospital for a week or two if I cant handel it. The rest of my family do not understand me and I do not think they will help me if I am sad.

I do have my boyfriend in the uk though. I hope that he can help even though he is far away.

I wont try and hurt myself or anything like that . I just might need to check myself into a hospital just because I will be a compleat mess and I dont want my family to start thinking I'm crazy again. ( my father dosent like emotion) and he will try and commit me anyways.

My mother is the only one in my family that was half way decent. She kept my father from throwing my on the street many times.
I did get kicked out but my mom toled me she was trying to talk my dad out of it. And she toled me I can go back home if I ever want to.

I have a bad past with my dad but I feel it is in the past now.

The point is my mom is the only one that truly cares about me in my family. After she is gone I will be alone, and the only one who will still be there for me is my boyfriend.

I'm very scared of being alone. I can't take care of myself without help so I'm worried.


I think I understand exactly how you feel. In my family, even though I'm still hiding some things from her, my mom is the one who seems to care about me, and understand me the most. Luckily, in my life, I'm still friends with my hs gf, and the second guy I had a crush on. The first is no longer with us. I know that at least for me, having a compassionate shoulder to cry on really helped, and continues to.



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13 Jan 2009, 6:49 pm

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She has copd , but thats not what the current problem is.

Everything she eats passes through her system before her body can absorb it,
so she keeps loosing weight. She is 98 or 97 pounds now.

is she taking ensure or anything similar [eg,complan,build up..]? they would be good as backup for her along with whatever she is eating,as lots of people who have similar problems with weight are prescribed them,am prescribed them for having an extremely limited diet.


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