Giving up on the outside world

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Ruchard
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06 Apr 2009, 3:44 pm

I have given up on the outside world there are too many rules and unwriten codes and u can't say what you like. I have tried to fit in but just can't get the hang of it if u don't like the same music or watch the same movies has everyone else people will not like you for that or if u don't own the right mobile phone people will lol at you.



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06 Apr 2009, 8:27 pm

It's hard. I sympathise with your pain. People can be very cruel. There's little that I can think of that could help make things better and I don't know if anything that has helped me can help you. I found that ignoring people has a little limited success but as you're a guy (I'm guessing) that may not work at all. Could you give a few more details on your situation? If that's ok, to better deal with the nastyness?



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07 Apr 2009, 7:45 am

i tried to go out with a group of people a few yrs ago but i just didn't fit in because they teased me beacuse i didn't like the same music most people are shallow these days and care about brand names if u don't wear the right clothes people won't like me and i am trying to go out wiv another group of people seems to be going ok but thats once in awhile.



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07 Apr 2009, 9:49 am

You get good and bad people everywhere. Good luck, I hope the new group are nice to you. Shallow people are silly and hurtfull to be around, they think all should be the same and are best avoided/ignored.



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07 Apr 2009, 3:10 pm

Ruchard wrote:
i tried to go out with a group of people a few yrs ago but i just didn't fit in because they teased me beacuse i didn't like the same music most people are shallow these days and care about brand names if u don't wear the right clothes people won't like me and i am trying to go out wiv another group of people seems to be going ok but thats once in awhile.


Don't let those shallow idiots make you feel bad. THEY have a problem. NOT you.

I hope you'll have more luck meeting better people.:)



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07 Apr 2009, 4:01 pm

The new group of people are nice to me they know i have AS so they don't tease me that much.