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Tamaya
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24 Jun 2025, 8:11 am

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Do you think you feel a certain pressure by certain women

I mean it's really difficult because I've never really been in your shoes but I've heard women say that they feel a pressure to be something

I don't know what that something is though

Yes, women around my age or younger, I can feel really self-conscious around. Unless I know them.
But I'm talking about strangers.

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24 Jun 2025, 8:16 am

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I'm taking it that you're pleased with the new hair do

Oh yes, it was really long, like almost down to my waist, so now it's back to being just past the shoulders. The guy cutting my hair was friendly and I felt relaxed.

Wow I bet you feel lighter

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24 Jun 2025, 8:17 am

I'll have to start using 2 boxes of dye at a time in my hair soon

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24 Jun 2025, 8:18 am

Tamaya wrote:

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Yes, women around my age or younger, I can feel really self-conscious around. Unless I know them.
But I'm talking about strangers.

You feel judged maybe

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24 Jun 2025, 8:26 am

No it's more than that I think

When I was younger (and even still now) I used to feel about 20 foot tall when I went out and I used to feel like every single person could see me

There was nothing I could do about it
No matter how I styled myself
Nothing made any difference
I used to get to the front door and I'd have to turn back and get changed
That could happen 5 or 6 times before I'd leave the house
Then when I was out I would never look at my reflection in windows or mirrors just in case I found a fault and then I'd just want the ground to swallow me up
It was hell

Is it like that

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24 Jun 2025, 8:30 am

The heatwave continues. I go to the library today.

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24 Jun 2025, 8:33 am

My sister and niece are coming over this morning.

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24 Jun 2025, 9:11 am

cecilfienkelstien wrote:

My sister and niece are coming over this morning.

Is that good or bad?

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24 Jun 2025, 9:21 am

Drum roll

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24 Jun 2025, 12:33 pm

:lol:

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24 Jun 2025, 1:44 pm

I know someone who has 4 sons now but wants a daughter so is trying for another baby. Apparently all her friends have daughters and she's envious and so wants a daughter herself (even though she loves her sons unconditionally). I don't know why people get so hung up on the sex of their kids for. I mean I know I'd love a son but if I got pregnant and had a daughter instead, then had another daughter, I would probably just leave it at that, not keep on and on popping out babies until I got the desired sex. Lol