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This is a rant, but the way you rejected me, you could have minimized the pain I felt.

You aren't one of those cruel, shallow people. You are a compassionate person and a good friend and actually showed some care about how the rejection would have made me feel, but you too could have done more.

When you first rejected me, you shouldn't have tried to manipulate me into feeling okay about it, saying I should be 'relieved' that I now have a NEW FEMALE FRIEND that can help me get a girlfriend. Bullsh•t. You broke my heart and it was perfectly normal and NATURAL for me to still be upset at the time, but you just wanted to quickly move on as fast as possible to try and make me not even realize that it hurt. You reject me by saying "I haven't been ignorant of your advances, and I just want to say, it's NOT gonna happen. Oh, but HEY, if you EVER need a FRIEND who can help you get a girlfriend, you've got ME now. So yay, that's great, isn't it?! "

what is any reasonable minded person supposed to think of that?

And, you should have rejected me properly the first time. You said you were Bisexual, but was only looking for a girlfriend at the time. You reject me, yet you told me I still had a 'pretty good chance' and I am still in your 'possible boyfriend zone'. And make me hold onto false hopes that 6 months into the future, you'd like guys again and give me a chance.

A few weeks later, you decide you only see me as a friend and that I am in your 'friendzone'. You delay in telling me this and continue to allow me to cling onto my false hopes.

And then you tell me you only see me as a friend, and that even though you do like guys again, you aren't interested in a relationship with anyone ad feel you would personally be too busy in your life for one.

Not even 2 weeks later, you change your mind yet again. You contradict both of those statements. You develop an attraction to ANOTHER male that you also only saw as a friend just like me, and you DO end up dating him.

So, you either LIED to me, or weren't confident/sure about yourself when you said it to me.

If you REALLY meant what you said, that you weren't looking for a relationship with ANYONE at the time, then you would have dedictated yurself to NOT ending up dating this new guy. You would have tried your very best to stop yourself from developing feelings for him. And, even though he only saw you as a friend, he told you he was willing to give you a chance.

But, if you REALLY meant what you had told me, you would have said no. You would have said "I am sorry, but I can't accept your offer. I promised myself I wasn't looking for a relationship with anyone right now, and I am going to stick by those words, BECAUSE I'M NOT A CONFUSED PERSON WHO SAYS ONE THING AND THEN CHANGES THEIR GODDAMN MIND ONE OR TWO FRICKEN WEEKS LATER."

My heart was broken only for her to turn around and end up with a new guy the exact same way I did. I liked her, she only saw me as a friend, she wasn't looking for a relationship at the time, she didn't give me a chance. She liked her friend, he only saw her as a friend, he wasn't looking for a relationship with anyone at the time either, he gave her a achance. And now they are happy together.

And, to add insult to injury, you and him show off about yoru relationsgip. You treat it as a status symbol. I hang out with the same group of friends as you both, and they treat it like some celebrity relationship. And, whether you admit it or not, you DO support it and you reinforce it. You act like you hate them pestering you over your relationship for gossip, but truth is you enjoy the attention. You openly flirt and show off about the relationship so fricken much. It is not cute, but sickening.
Not just that, but you two are basically inseparable now. I feel like I don't even have a friend anymore, because my female friend is always with her boyfriend now. You both stand ridiculously close together at nearly all times, it's like you're both barely even individuals anymore. It makes me sad, the disgusting thought that every time I think of you, my female friend, you will only ever be with him, I can't even think of you, my female friend, anymore without him also popping into my mind. I understand you;re both in a relationship, and everyone ahs different kinds of relationships, but you both seem insecure if you realy have to cling that tightly together.

I moved on and got a new girlfriend but we didn't last. At least Me and my ex girlfriend were nowhere near as clingy as you two. We were very private about the relationship and could spend time and distance apart.

That's all I have to say. You stepped on me, and now I have to suffer.

Am I jealous, and still upset over the fact that you rejected me? Yes. But I'd honestly like to get back together with my ex more than anything else.

It's just IN GENERAL.

I have only been stepped on this year by the opposite sex in general, and to be honest, you, my female friend, did it the worst. You were the one that made me feel the worst.

This is why I can't be with you, and don't actually want to be with you. I am still sad that you rejected me, but happy I avoided ending up with a person like you. A person who can't make up their mind about what they want, always changing it regardless of how much it hurts the people you supposedly care about.

You're a good friend but you would have never made a good girlfriend to me.

I was saddended that my ex girlfriend broke up with me, and still want to get back together with her, but you hurt me the most, female friend. You did.