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23 Nov 2015, 5:51 am

Stop trying to analyse me, I can't even figure myself out so I don't think you'll have any luck! And why do you do it anyway?! !


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25 Nov 2015, 12:12 pm

When I tried to talk to you last night, it seemed you were too busy to even care about my problems. Why were you at the bar at that hour, anyway; shouldn't you have been home then? I was also hoping to bond with you today, but I guess that will be cut short. Do you have any idea how much that hurts me?


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25 Nov 2015, 11:31 pm

The more excuses you make for your behavior, the more obvious it becomes that you really don't love your child. Poor kid. It's not his fault that he was born that way.


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27 Nov 2015, 6:41 am

Oh noes. I realized I haven't followed tradition and nicknamed you like all the previous boyz before you (Geoffsicles, Josh 2.0 etc). So without further ado I christen you;

Wowserboy :P



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27 Nov 2015, 8:55 am

You've definitely "gone off the deep end" this time. I hope that you are harmless, even to yourself.


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27 Nov 2015, 1:27 pm

Justeve wrote:
Stop trying to analyse me, I can't even figure myself out so I don't think you'll have any luck! And why do you do it anyway?! !

I read this post yesterday, and felt greatly compelled to come-back and post about it today.....

I would consider it a great injustice, to myself, if I were to not allow others to analyze me. It's like just basic human nature that we are not good at analyzing ourselves----or, at least, it doesn't seem to come naturally, that we are able to see ourselves as others see us.

I consider myself a very good judge of myself, and yet, someone, sometimes, is able to point-out something that I've missed. It's that ol' thing about "can't see the forest, for the trees". When one is on the INside, they can't see; but, when one is on the OUTside, they see ALOT.

I think, sometimes, we don't like when others analyze us, cuz we think we've failed (at the analyzation of ourselves), and we don't want our failure pointed-out to us (for instance, if the person's right); but I feel that if we do anything to impede knowledge about ourselves----and, therefore, growth----we are doing ourselves a TERRIBLE injustice. I also feel that it's, kinda, a "shortcoming" of ASDers to feel like we always have to know everything / be right about everything (I've been extremely guilty of / fallen victim to this, myself [always needing to be right])----I feel I understand it, though (I feel it's because we've been told we're wrong / "less-than" / faulty, all-of-our-lives, so we need to prove to everybody that we can be right); but, I feel it is unwise to block information.

Don't get me wrong, others can be WRONG in their analyzation of us; but.....

I mean, look it, we were not BORN knowing how to walk, talk, read, write, etc.----someone had to teach us----I am GLAD when someone points-out (teaches) something about myself, to me, because then I don't have to exert so much energy (and exhausting myself), trying to figure myself out----I am NOT glad, though, when someone points-out, something about me, to someone ELSE.

One has NOT failed when someone else is correct in their analyzation of us----it IS a failing, IMO, if we do not listen / consider.




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27 Nov 2015, 5:04 pm

You don't need to pretend to have a superior ideology to get people to like you. Just be yourself, and share your interests with the rest of us. I'm sure that you are a very nice person; but it's kind of hard to tell with all of that fundamentalist rhetoric you use as a smokescreen to hide behind.


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29 Nov 2015, 7:59 am

I had to help you out yesterday and now you come knocking at my door for a fault you found on me ??



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29 Nov 2015, 5:10 pm

Yes, thankyou.
I know I have a speech impediment.
You don't need to parrot it back to me over and over again.
Capeesh?


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05 Dec 2015, 10:34 am

Grow up! You know it doesn't always go through on (insert name of other website), stop making it seem like I'm doing this deliberately! :x


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05 Dec 2015, 1:11 pm

One day you'll realize I was right in having to walk away from you cause, there would be no literal way I could actually ever love you or be in love with you on a romantic level.Mainly, the decisions you made were ones that ultimately caused "us" to go our separate ways as well, choosing someone whom you damned knew was a negative and abusive impact upon your life.. I wished things could have been different but, they're not and so, I continue on with my life..


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05 Dec 2015, 1:35 pm

I warned you that this would happen. They courted you with flattery, favors, and gifts that you could have easily bought for yourself.

Now you're out millions, and they have shifted operations overseas.

You should have insisted on a written contract; but no, you said that they were too nice to not be trusted; and besides, who was I to give you advice? Just another (now former) employee.

Good luck trying to get your money, your house, and your family back.


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05 Dec 2015, 2:16 pm

Never had the language a notice is written in made it so scary to me.


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05 Dec 2015, 9:14 pm

I really wish you wouldn't fall asleep all the time. I try to tell you what's bothering me, and even when you're not sleepy, you don't seem to think it's a big deal. I thought you love me. :cry:


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07 Dec 2015, 6:13 am

You are to cakes and desserts as Cookie Monster is to cookies.



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08 Dec 2015, 5:23 am

You have set me on a goal of self improvement, your words are wise.


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