Are You Left-handed and an Aspie?
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I don't understand the point on this poll. Most all the voters will vote left-handed & Aspie sense this is an Aspie forum.
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BUT I hope there are parents or concerned individuals who are not Aspie or with any psych syndrome who are browsing and trying to understand people with psych syndrome, and this researchers/parents happen to be left-handed... they can probably vote "NO, Just Left-Handed"
I'm highly ambidextrous. I was forced to write with my right hand in school and I still do many things with my right hand but there are many other things that I can only do with my left hand. Sometimes I don't really know which hand to use so there's definitely something messed up in my head. I usually see things mirrored in my head... meh.
Good thing is, if one hand gets tired (while writing or doing something on the computer) I can simply use my other hand and continue. Guess I'm more efficient then. hah.
I've read somewhere that being forced to use the wrong hemisphere of your brain from early childhood on can cause some symptoms that are similar to those for AS (no true identity, introverted, ADHS) but I don't know to what extend and if there are real connections or just comorbidities.
For example myself as a father...when my son started showing his Aspie behaviors...it made me worry and even think we might have done something when he was still in his mother's womb...when he was just about 4 or 5...I am really sorry because I was just really freaking out when he just can't understand my instruction...I taught him to tie his shoes...hold spoon and fork..it frustrated me a lot..
SO this is basically my point...if 90-99% of the left-handed or ambidextrous people are with some psych syndrome...parents would be able to understand their child immediately if especially their child shows left-handedness...
Really as a father I blame myself for being pissed off and angry when my son just couldn't understand simple things...alpahabets and numbers gets reversed...spelling is very hard to teach...he can't hold his spoon properly...he breaks things...NOW I feel stupid...it is my ignorance...NOT my son's fault...HE is a lefty..what can he do? He is an Aspie...I didn't know before...I just know he is left-handed and don't know any relationship to psych syndrome...I strongly believe there is..BUT that just now..I've already been stupid sometime ago...
I hope this make sense...
Definate subject change there....but my step father raised me by smacking me around, and sitting on me while stuffing tylonel down my throat if I stayed home sick. Threatening to have doctors drill into my head and waking me every morning by assaulting me with a kick/punch or a throw across the room. There's always room for improvement on being a dad. But if your trying to explain things verbally that might be a problem. I was held back education wise by people taking my verbal issues as discipline issues. If I had a teacher that liked me my grades where all A's and everything was cake.
Its hard to prove something especially if we are not known experts or scientists...BUT as for me, I believe it's NOT anymore a coincidence that most, if not all, of the left-handed people I know shared the same situations as a child...IT's not that I investigated them...I can just recall their story...some were my childhood friends...so I've seen how they grew up...my brother as well...I can see his being exclusive..he is even fine being at somewhere else not with his wife (he's been like that since she was just his girlfriend..my brother just see her one a week or a month)..my left-handed office mate who shared their childhood especially on their hand writing skills...And now even as an adult..that one sided conversation thing...oh yes...
BUT when most, if not all, of them have aspie-like behavior and they are also left-handed like my son....even without scientific research..it would make me think THIS IS NO COINCIDENCE.
or this is just my Aspie side surfacing... ![]()
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For example myself as a father...when my son started showing his Aspie behaviors...it made me worry and even think we might have done something when he was still in his mother's womb...when he was just about 4 or 5...I am really sorry because I was just really freaking out when he just can't understand my instruction...I taught him to tie his shoes...hold spoon and fork..it frustrated me a lot..
SO this is basically my point...if 90-99% of the left-handed or ambidextrous people are with some psych syndrome...parents would be able to understand their child immediately if especially their child shows left-handedness...
Really as a father I blame myself for being pissed off and angry when my son just couldn't understand simple things...alpahabets and numbers gets reversed...spelling is very hard to teach...he can't hold his spoon properly...he breaks things...NOW I feel stupid...it is my ignorance...NOT my son's fault...HE is a lefty..what can he do? He is an Aspie...I didn't know before...I just know he is left-handed and don't know any relationship to psych syndrome...I strongly believe there is..BUT that just now..I've already been stupid sometime ago...
I hope this make sense...
Definate subject change there....but my step father raised me by smacking me around, and sitting on me while stuffing tylonel down my throat if I stayed home sick. Threatening to have doctors drill into my head and waking me every morning by assaulting me with a kick/punch or a throw across the room. There's always room for improvement on being a dad. But if your trying to explain things verbally that might be a problem. I was held back education wise by people taking my verbal issues as discipline issues. If I had a teacher that liked me my grades where all A's and everything was cake.
Not a subject change... what I mean is..."for example" IF a step-father or father like yours would have known or understood your left-handedness (if for example your left-handed) then he wouldn't have done what he have done to you...
growing up as a left-handed would be like carrying a warning sign saying...I am left-handed be careful or don't get mad at me..there is a strong possibility I may be an Aspie...I will not be like you...so please understand me....
Yes, it wouldn't be recognizable if your right-handed with aspie...being right-handed you're suppose to be like the common people right...BUT you are not...
BUT at least for the left-handed...there is an immediate special care or concern or understanding when Aspie-like behavior is already surfacing in their childhood...parents or common people (especially school teachers) expectation of commonly acceptable behavior will be lessen and replaced with understanding...that the child is left-handed...it will be hard for him to be the same with the common child or student...
On another note....When I said I freaked out or got angry with my son..It wasn't to the extent of assaulting..punching..or kicking him...NOT at all...
Good thing is, if one hand gets tired (while writing or doing something on the computer) I can simply use my other hand and continue. Guess I'm more efficient then. hah.
I've read somewhere that being forced to use the wrong hemisphere of your brain from early childhood on can cause some symptoms that are similar to those for AS (no true identity, introverted, ADHS) but I don't know to what extend and if there are real connections or just comorbidities.
I guess the whole point of being forced to use the wrong hemisphere of their brain...Is that they were Left-handed....they tend to behave differently or rather uncommon to what is commonly acceptable behavior..they are expected to react or show empathy..when their facial muscles don't respond to what's on their mind..they're not showing any gesture of empathy...or forced to write or hold the spoon on their right hand when it was hard for them...
I don't think the "force" or expectation is what caused them to be Aspie....I beleive they were born left-handed or right-brain dominant...Aspie has been inherent in them..left-handed people or child...
I recall my left-handed office mate saying why are computers designed for right-handed people?If he will design a computer it will be for left-handed people....
well I smiled...I suppose he was just joking and see if I will try to argue with him when he already know the answer to his question...I did not respond but smile...
BUT thinking of it...that's the point....If 90% of the population are left-handed....maybe the right-handed minority would have been perceived as with ODD behavior....and probably with Psych Syndrome...
well I smiled...I suppose he was just joking and see if I will try to argue with him when he already know the answer to his question...I did not respond but smile...
Hmmm.. not sure I understand what you're implying here..
There's no need for a leftie computer actually... you can already buy leftie keyboads and mouses. The only thing that is annoying sometimes is that the OS or software is easier for right-handed use. But then of course unless you write Arabic or Hebrew or a few other languages, you'd write from left to right, so menu items and controls are most likely on the left, too. I find that a bit complicated sometimes to use them with a leftie mouse.
And if there's one thing lefties are good at it is most likely being able to adapt. It's not just the computer.. cameras, bicycle bells DIY tools are generally designed for the right hand and most of the lefties I know can (somehow) use them too. Anyway. not Aspie related.
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You know this poll suffers from a huge selection bias do to were it's asked and what questions it asks, and for all purposes is useless?
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I'm ambidextrous and Aspie. I'm also left foot dominant and left eye dominant. My parents encouraged me to write with my right hand as a small child so that's how I started off, but somewhere along the way (1st or 2nd grade) I realized that I could write just as well with my left hand.
By the way, I'm a left handed aspie.
I really want a global census that asks everything so we can get some accurate results.
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The option of right handed aspies is seriously lacking.
Btw, I was born left handed, but my mother always told me to use the right one, and went to the extreme of grabbing my left hand whenever I wanted to use it for anything, so I ended up being right-handed. Right now I'm practicing writing and eating with the left one though, becoming ambidextrous could be useful.
