Bun wrote:
I think that not all people who are called Trolls come into places with the intention of Trolling. I think it may be in the eye of the perceiver. Two instances where I supposedly 'trolled' an internet space:
1. I was involved in a discussion after a post I made, and told a commenter I agree with her, even though what she said was not in complete agreement to my original post. To me it's common courtesy, to think about other people's feelings and thoughts if I raise an argument. She also didn't believe me I could have considered the point she made prior to writing my post, and that I can include more than one POV when I discuss something. I also used to use smilies until then, to show I'm making a light-hearted discussion, but I got told by posters that smilies are 'passive aggressive' - whatever that means, because it means nothing to me.
2. On WP, I raised a question to a mother of an autistic kid, who said she's awaiting assessment for herself and another child regarding autism - I asked if she often suspects autism. Since then she backtracked/edited a lot of her posts, and also called me a troll via PM.
I think I was once accused of being a troll on here. It was when I was talking about my naive friend who got herself into situations, and I wanted to help her and I was accused of trying to control her life and that I was selfish and wanted her for myself, and all that BS. Interestingly when I said that I was a woman, people stepped back, except for one who decided to carry on defending his argument. Some people are so pathetic.
It sounds like you touched a nerve, Bun. Generally people on the internet have a stronger reflex to attack others.