Can ayone put this in simple terms for me?

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Ok. To sum this up.Love an Obsession are the same. if you are obsessed with something, youare in love with it. unless it's a person. If you start going out with the person your obsessed with it's love.

So basically youcould say "i'm obsessed with you." instead of i love you? but then that would be creepy, right?

ok. lol. But I still don't get this: If your obsessed and the other isn't is that love? I mean if you aren't even going out with them and are just really obsessed and not a stalker? Is it love or just obsession?

Ok... but two people can have crushes on each other and then date. and still have crushes on each other. Love is a deeper form of crush.solater they fall in love right?

I'll just go with the idea that we are in love with our obsessions. And that once you start dating your obsession it'slove or something...even though you could fallin love before hand right? befoe going out with them. (gets the feeling she's being annoying)

If you do that, you cut out the whole stalker/crush issue. Frankly though, there are different feelings when the object of your affection (animate or not) is returning feelings to you. This I would view as different from just an obsession. Seems too much to ask from mathematics though, and that's what I'm trying.

Thats what I was trying to say but I got all confused....

But when it comes to it, does it really matter? You're not going to tell someone that you're obsessed with them. You can honestly tell them that you love them, as long as you believe it (ah so many times though I've made this mistake). Inanimate objects probably don't care how you feel, but if they do, just be honest with them as well.

If it's only one person, then it could be called 'unrequited love.'

Unless you break into their house, and sniff their underwear.

Uh.... did youknow there are some guys who kidnap women, and take their underwhere along?I know there is ome kind of name for it....

Do most men kidnap women without their underwear? I've been doing it wrong all along.

haha.. lol