[Minor Rant] Nobody Really Wants Advice.

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I think it's mainly about point of views.
Not talking about circumstances and reasons, I'm talking about personal blindspots because of these personal contexts -- that even includes both parties.

And when one sees beyond these blind spots... There's a good chance they'll deny without thinking about it. Or if they do, they'd justify these blind spots as not as it is.


To let others accept these blind spots and what it reveals along with the solutions, it requires certain steps, certain mindset, certain changes, certain levels of maturity.
Some even require specific terms of delivery, despite the similar content and essence. Good verbal ability is a good tool, emotionality and rationality is a good tool. Personal experiences, stories, intelligence, etc. They're tools.


In other words, some of your statements or advices cannot be taken correctly.
Because those who tries to take it lack the prerequisites to see past their personal contexts, reasons and circumstances.
They either cannot or wouldn't let go of their attachment of an idea, whether they are aware of it or not.

Even towards myself -- that's how I observed it.

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