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My mom accusing me again of breaking the window blind on purpose.

And why would someone do that? Does your mother have a theory why you would break it on purpose? What the benefit for you would be? Wouldn't it only get you in trouble? Sorry, I just don't understand your mother's logic in this.

Yes, I did pull the string on the window blind too hard, but I didn't do it on purpose.

Whenever she makes a mistake, my mom takes her feelings out on me and my sister, seeing us as easy targets.
In fact, back in June, I got into a freak accident where I cracked my skull and of course knocked myself unconsciousness. I woke up in the hospital and realized that I lost my phone when it happened.

Even now, my mom is still pissed not only about the accident, but also about me losing my phone. She believes that I faked the accident, even though she has never said why she believes this. I did not fake the accident nor was I expecting to lose my phone in the process.

... you faked cracking your skull? I'm so sorry you are dealing with this constant harassment. I have no words.

I'm sorry your mother acts like that. Truly awful. Seems like bullying or mental abuse.

Wish you much strength in this awful situation, also to your sister.

A cute hug for you and your sister:

I did not fake cracking my skull, but what concerns me is that my mom needs help before she goes off of the edge.

However, my therapist is against the idea of my mom seeing a therapist so much that I want to slug my therapist right in the face.

Our mom is a bully, but refuses to admit it. In fact, she tells me and my sister where we can and can't apply for work even though I have been getting help from VR Services since the beginning of 2017.

As for my sister looking for work, she did have a job around this time last year, but it didn't last for very long. She worked at a ticket office at a concert venue, but one day our mom refused to get her after she finished her shift. It was around 1 AM and my sister was panicking to the point that when they got home, they engaged in an argument.

My sister quit her job a few days later and has been looking for work ever since despite our mom's antics.

Thank you for the support, Brother Loyal and anyone else who reads this.

That indeed sounds like bullying. Wish I could help further. We are always here to listen and support, that is what the forum and we are here for Brother AnonymousAnonymous.

Hope things will look up for you and your sister some day soon.

While I was sitting outside at the adult school (where I am not a student), eating peanut butter twix, the janitor screamed at me "why you do that at school?"

Finally realized he was talking to me and he thought it was drugs



He was about 30 yards away

Some precious lil "people" have selective vision and hearing

They talk too much and too loudly

Demands in the sense where people stare at you and expect you to look back and it burns. He used to make me look at him when we used to argue or have a serious talk and so many times I told him it is incredibly draining at those times. Sometimes he remembers, I can tell it bothers him though. And demands physical contact as in I cry and have an anxiety attack and he wants to do the whole patting or hugging thing and I really don't feel comfortable with that - especially seeing as he is the reason I am angry.

I could get a place on my own, but I am on the lease and feel bad leaving him to pay rent - he doesn't even have a job anymore.

He isn't abusive in the sense that I require law or anything.

I just promised myself a long time ago that I would not allow myself to be in a relationship where I feel I am being manipulated, or being lied to and he has been doing it since the start and I confronted him recently about lies and they all connected to each other and came out at once.

I would like to remain friends with him, but I definitely do not see him as a life partner anymore. I could not compromise my self respect, I know of my own self worth now. He refuses to allow us to break up. I will ask for a break. He is hoping my feelings to change to the way they were before and not be bitter as I have become, but they will not. I know in time, in the future he will realise I am not the person for him.

Thank you so much. I am so thankful for this community. I finally feel like I am part of something. It is very challenging. I just cannot believe I allowed another person to do this to me.
I am so drained right now.

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I get a sense in my gut or something that this has happened to the Aspie I was seeing briefly prior. He still wasn't over it, but I feel like she may of taken advantage of him in some sort of way.
I think it is that we operate in a different way, we are more sensitive and can be too trusting to the wrong people, but it is not our fault. People should not take advantage.
I would like in time to be back with Aspie I was seeing prior. He was respectful. He is the reason I found out I was an Aspie myself. Shame I was too unwell to see what was going on at the time. I know he still has feelings for me. I would like to take my time with him, I know he felt the same before. I'm still in love with him. It never felt as right with anyone else as it did with him. It always felt like there was some sort of "connection unplugged" with my previous partners. But my previous partners were very abusive.

I think in time I will find peace with this situation. I would really like to live alone. I have realised I cannot function living with another person.

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This all sounds very abusive to me! Mental torture.
Reminds me of my childhood. I really hope you can get away from this somehow, sorry I am not much help.

Yesterdays aikido instructor (my former instructor from eight years ago and a different building) sat around before and after the lesson talking leisurely to everyone except one woman and myself

In the current building some woman is the head instructor but she doesn't teach Wednesday morning

A different woman teaches Wednesday morning

That woman went to Turkey this week

And then a third woman (not the head instructor and not the one that went to Turkey)
came late and left early so she doesn't count

Some dude asked him how he balanced aikido and children.

Wtf

What a vague question

Google it


The instructor was not in a hurry to go to work


Whenever I look at him I get jealous


He is neurotypical, socially adept , cisgender, white, civil engineer


Of everyone that I am jealous of, he ranks high on the list


Before the lesson he was sitting around talking about the bowing procedures

And I managed flip the dog"


Yoga down dog, then where, then down dog


When I fell it made a noise


He looked and didn't say anything


A different dude said hello to me

Someone else said goodbye to me

He was sitting next to the


He didn't say anything


He acts all chummy and s**t to everyone except me


Nine weeks ago he asked me if someone else was planning to come Wednesday from now on

How should I know?

Do I look psychic or telepathic?

She didn't tell me

,Why did he care

And why was he asking me


He pretty much ignores me

Maybe he is angry that eight years ago I left his lessons and went to a different instructor

But that was eight years ago

And they are both non-profit

Besides he is talking lessons at the same building as me right now



He acts all passive aggressive around me and I feel ignored, annoyed, invisible, inconsquential.

A lot of the time I want to talk to him but he is busy flapping his trap at someone else



He doesn't have the engineering personality


He's the life of the part , extrovert

It appears natural



His personality is like survival of the fittest


And he is good at a wide variety of things



Just looking at him makes me green with envy




Feel like sibling rivalry



"There's a hole in the bucket dear Liza dear Liza"

Dewey decimal system

Theory of multiple intelligences










Some precious lil "people" act like they are entitled morally to get everything they want at all times.



f**k those ass holes

Yet another troll has posted yet another conspiracy theory under the assumption that all Aspies are ignorant, gullible, and easily convinced of even the most blatantly bogus assertions.

Fortunately, some of us are smarter than that, we know how to check the facts, and we're not afraid to call out someone for posting false claims.

Shame we can't see them because the tin-foil hats would be an easy give-away

Waiting around for people to be ready to go.