shortfatbalduglyman wrote:
ltcvnzl wrote:
i cried in class today because i'm so overwhelmed by dealing with people
Online school
i'm already on my last semester of regular classes at architecture school, next semester i will only work on my final project so i won't have to attend classes.
i can abstract people most of time or even get well with them but when i need to do group work it's very hard for me. i don't communicate well with people, then i've been doing this group work this last weeks and there was two girls in the group who are friends and they don't really put effort on anything, and they got together to say how i was rude and that they did a s**t job because it was painful and annoying to work with me. it hurt me a lot. i often take a lot of responsibility coordinating the work, because i like to do things but i want people to claim some responsibility too... but they don't... and i feel those girls were kind of gaslighting me to take the blame because they didn't want to do things? i don't know. i felt confused by it – am i a s**t person or are them being mean on purpose? then i cried because i didn't want to have to face them and deal with them and everything.
but after i talked with the professor later and she was very nice to me and said i can do the work alone if i feel it's better for me. i'm very relieved and i even managed to advance a lot of things for next weeks.
thank you all for the support and advices.

i'm really glad i have this forum