nick007 wrote:
It's amazing how many women online find me supper sweet because of the way I talk about a celeb crush but I'm willing to bet none of em would like me if I would start liking em. I'm not interested in em anyways thou so maybe that's why they think I'm soo great
You know Nick, I don't believe you would ever have a crush on me because I'm so much older than you. But I wanted to say, I do feel anxious and uncomfortable when someone has a crush on me, I guess because I'm not always great at communicating or responding right to them.
I feel very relaxed with you and most of the men here because I don't feel all that pressure to say and do the correct thing, I don't feel like I'm under a microscope, I can be myself and say what I want. Does that make sense?
Anyway, I do believe you are a super sweet guy, I've been very impressed with some of the things you have said and it's great knowing you here at WP.
Maybe other women here feel the same way, so it might not have anything to do with you at all, but instead be about men in general and being in a romantic relationship. It can be stressful.
That makes some sense but I'm going to have to think about it some more. I'm a little tired. I might go shower in a bit so maybe latter tonight or tomorrow after I'm up a while I'll understand it better.
I generally like women after I know em a while & feel comfortable with em but I guess that always gets me in the only friends category because they don't want to feel uncomfortable or risk losing the friendship by being more perhaps
I've pretty much given up on relationships anyways. Trying to have one has caused me lots & lots of problems that I would of been much better off without. I much rather have some women friends then have no women friends because I ruined em all by asking for something deeper. I'm glad your impressed with some of the things I've said because I feel like a humongous idiot a lot of the time. I simply do not notice realize or am are am aware of things that most anyone else would; I'm the last to know If I ever know. I feel like evolution skipped me. I''m Darwin's weakest link