Raleigh wrote:
So you have acknowledged that children are sexual beings but you are saying that only sex with other children is morally and socially acceptable.
All beings are sexual by nature, hence why we are here!
If it was natural for a 13-14 year old girl etc to give birth then why are there so many complications involved at that age, then take into account many dont reach puberty or start till their late teens. Just because a girl can ovulate doesn't mean her body is developed enough to handle such a change and trauma at that age. As well as how the mind would cope... In some ways it is a subject of morals and ethics to a large extent but to me puberty is the start of the development for the body to be able to endure such things not the moment that ovulation starts for the first time ( or even pre ovulation for that matter). And how can some man in his thirties '' Be in LOVE'' with someone that age unless it is only based on the visual? What have they in common, cant talk about much other than school work and how they spent the day playing hopscotch!
Also children of that age are vulnerable not realizing the pain the world is going to be once they reach adulthood so will likely believe anything anyone says to them to a point as they dont have the understanding that many people only say things to get what they want and have no care about being honest or authentic. At least in their late teens /twenties do they start to gain knowledge of the world we are living in. Not many people i know hold the same ideologies in there twenties as they did when they were 13-14..
Dont know many 14 year olds that are living on their own raising a child either. As mentioned there are numerous reasons to why not as opposed to it being ok... In my book it is just fundamentally wrong for many reasons!
Thats just in part my opinion and thats all it is, just my opinion
As far as between the same age groups that IS a different matter. But again if not fully understood of the consequences can have sever repercussions. Yes it is somewhat ''natural'' for two people the same age as we are sexual beings by nature but we have also being given the gift of reasoning aswell and should use that when appropriate. So cant really stop 2 14 year olds getting horny with each other, but when it comes to a grown man or woman taking advantage of that situation IS a different matter!
I was sexually abused for a period of time at 6 years old and thought that was the norm as i was made to trust the situation, only later in life did i realise that is not so and somewhat haunts me to this day!
So yes, my views may be biased on such things happening but if that did not happen i feel i would still have the same point of view... But that in itself shows the difference of a mind at a young age and that of a more developed mind in their late teens/twenties.