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20 May 2017, 1:33 am

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i'd certainly feel weirded out here if i saw such a thing going on in my own "backyard", and desire to help them, but what happens in other nations or cultures isn't any of my own business and i wouldn't want to spend my own energy worrying about it.

how young is too young? IMO that depends on so many things there hardly is a way to make a "rule" about it without some unfairness, but i guess there has to be one anyway.

i'll be 20 in a month and my GF will still be 17 until july, is that odd?


No, not odd at all and i am sure you understand about protection, std's etc that not all children at 14 know about. They may have heard of these things but yet will rarely be able to comprehend their meanings. Not only that but a child of 13-14 getting pregnant not only puts the child's life at risk but their own as well... Many issues/complications can arise for someone of that age... It is not any of my business either but i can say if any man tried meddling with my 13-14 year old sister he would likely be unable to walk or talk for the rest of his remaining life time whatever the consequences were to myself.



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20 May 2017, 2:10 am

So you have acknowledged that children are sexual beings but you are saying that only sex with other children is morally and socially acceptable.


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20 May 2017, 2:25 am

pretty sure i read *sex between minors.


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20 May 2017, 2:28 am

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So you have acknowledged that children are sexual beings but you are saying that only sex with other children is morally and socially acceptable.

All beings are sexual by nature, hence why we are here!
If it was natural for a 13-14 year old girl etc to give birth then why are there so many complications involved at that age, then take into account many dont reach puberty or start till their late teens. Just because a girl can ovulate doesn't mean her body is developed enough to handle such a change and trauma at that age. As well as how the mind would cope... In some ways it is a subject of morals and ethics to a large extent but to me puberty is the start of the development for the body to be able to endure such things not the moment that ovulation starts for the first time ( or even pre ovulation for that matter). And how can some man in his thirties '' Be in LOVE'' with someone that age unless it is only based on the visual? What have they in common, cant talk about much other than school work and how they spent the day playing hopscotch!
Also children of that age are vulnerable not realizing the pain the world is going to be once they reach adulthood so will likely believe anything anyone says to them to a point as they dont have the understanding that many people only say things to get what they want and have no care about being honest or authentic. At least in their late teens /twenties do they start to gain knowledge of the world we are living in. Not many people i know hold the same ideologies in there twenties as they did when they were 13-14..
Dont know many 14 year olds that are living on their own raising a child either. As mentioned there are numerous reasons to why not as opposed to it being ok... In my book it is just fundamentally wrong for many reasons!
Thats just in part my opinion and thats all it is, just my opinion

As far as between the same age groups that IS a different matter. But again if not fully understood of the consequences can have sever repercussions. Yes it is somewhat ''natural'' for two people the same age as we are sexual beings by nature but we have also being given the gift of reasoning aswell and should use that when appropriate. So cant really stop 2 14 year olds getting horny with each other, but when it comes to a grown man or woman taking advantage of that situation IS a different matter!

I was sexually abused for a period of time at 6 years old and thought that was the norm as i was made to trust the situation, only later in life did i realise that is not so and somewhat haunts me to this day!
So yes, my views may be biased on such things happening but if that did not happen i feel i would still have the same point of view... But that in itself shows the difference of a mind at a young age and that of a more developed mind in their late teens/twenties.



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20 May 2017, 2:44 am

Maybe start a topic on that point of view and get a collective view rather than a perceived bias of my own, but i think you will fundamentally find most individuals will hold a similar point as myself, but then again i could be wrong..



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20 May 2017, 3:38 am

These are rough questions to me for many such reasons but I think I have to vote with Biggles here. Not about to judge anybody but I tend towards patience.

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Same reasons I've been wracking my brain over how to tell one girl I'm probably demisexual. She's brilliant & probably knows anyway though nevertheless I'm obliged...


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20 May 2017, 9:53 am

Looking forward to dinner; store bought potato salad. I've boiled a potato to add to it, and also adding apple. Besides this there is a couple of fried sausages. Very simple, but very good!

What are you guys having for dinner?



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20 May 2017, 10:00 am

^ Sounds good.

I went out for dinner.
Had grilled barramundi and vegetables.


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20 May 2017, 10:02 am

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Maybe start a topic on that point of view and get a collective view rather than a perceived bias of my own, but i think you will fundamentally find most individuals will hold a similar point as myself, but then again i could be wrong..

I think you misunderstand my reason for questioning this.
Doesn't matter.


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20 May 2017, 10:06 am

No-one abused me sexually when I was a child.

Maybe I was an ugly kid.



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20 May 2017, 10:08 am

I'm starting to think if you weren't sexually abused as a child you were in the minority.

You're in a minority group.


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20 May 2017, 10:10 am

No-one abused me as an adult either.

I feel left out.



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20 May 2017, 10:10 am

There's still time.



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20 May 2017, 10:14 am

There's something to look forward to.


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20 May 2017, 10:20 am

Mount Surprise is an awesome name.
Goodnight Scrub National Park.
Does Cinnabar state forest have an abundance of cinnabar? Or is it just the colour cinnabar? Either way, cool.

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20 May 2017, 10:23 am

Raleigh wrote:
^ Sounds good.

I went out for dinner.
Had grilled barramundi and vegetables.


Something like this..

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That looks good :)