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Kura, you cannot know how it feels to kiss someone who you have deep feelings for(non-family).

It starts with a feeling, then you kiss and that feeling is exchanged, then it sparks and you do other stuff.

Don't close yourself off to sex before you have experienced love and expression of love with another.

^^I possibly met her in a dream wherein my dad was driving down the shady side of a road. She was walking the other way on the sunlit side. i wanted to get out of the car and follow her, but I thought that my mum wouldn't like it, so I stayed.
I also saw her [possibly] in a dream about Hobbiton after Bilbo got back from his adventures at the end of The Hobbit.

^I'd rather have nothing to do with the other stuff, for many reasons, some of them sensory.

^^^ I am very disciplined.

My technique* is mindfulness. I ask myself, as often as possible, could I be doing this better? Could I be working harder, could I be multitasking, could I be doing something else/more?

If you train yourself in this behaviour enough, you will become disciplined.
It takes discipline just to ask yourself the question, so the practice strengthens itself.

Downside, I can't turn the bastard thing off. She whispers to me.
*Side effects may include bouts of abject misery.
I get s**t done though.

The term 'silent mind' is an oxymoron. The mind is never silent. You pretty much have to turn your mind off to experience silence.

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I have never heard the term 'silent mind'

Is it even a term?

Kura.

Ignore the physical aspect of love.

I'm talking about feeling, you will change how you view a person when you love them and then when you kiss them and touch them.

You cannot know you in that situation until you are there and standing awkwardly beside them, shuffling and wondering which is the real you.

They call that moment Ooooudobaku or 'True Love'.

^^^I read it in a book on mindfulness.

^^ That's surprising. Maybe it's because my dreams are so vivid?

^Oh. I see.

^ I don't think it's how vivid the dreams are. They just seem very obvious.

I dream vividly but rarely with that kind of meaning, problems and preoccupations presented as characters in the dream.

Mine are generally stories, sometimes animated, sometimes in other languages, and with a running theme of infanticide.


Did the book on mindfulness support or disparage the term 'silent mind'?

Do you, Kura?

Do you?

^^That's nothing compared to the really weird ones, such as the one where I was bitten by a mutant lemur thing.

^No, not at all. Being a romantic and being romantic are not remotely the same thing.

Wait, what?

^^What, what? Oh, about the lemur? Yeah...there's more to that dream, but it just gets weirder.

Goodnight, all.

Did I scare everyone away?

Night Kura.

Hope I didn't scare you off, sweet dreams.