Froya wrote:
I have a feeling there is a unwritten rule that I'm supposed to not use the terrace when my neighbor is using theirs, which is a few meters to the side

I agree it's a bit awkward, but still...
Some neighbors have put up something to shield, so they have that option if it's bothering them.
Oh yeah, definitely right about this!
Crap

I will try my best. I really like this people. I want to be fair.
(Does it matter that I'm sitting out there and listening to what you are saying

Hey! I'm lonely, you could at least give me that pleasure

)