Well, still haven't slept since the day before yesterday.... Was just dozing off this morning to be woken up to the flatmate almost burning down the kitchen, which sort of gave me my 15th wind!... Lucky She was ok and so was the kitchen, left some silicon mat on the stove and turned the stove on, lot of smoke and soot. She was rather shaken, more to do with thinking i would get upset... Instead i had a looksie and said at least i can see the cobwebs i missed from cleaning the other day, so thats a positive.. Think that cheered her up a bit but still shaking a little which doesnt help when she works as a doctor in A and E.... So now have two doctors in the house . Old flatmate moved out today that woks in the radiology department and new flatmate moving in on Monday that is a mental health professional.... So got all axis covered. No need to leave the house now! 
I think one of the doctors maybe an aspie. Or the very least borderline... Either way we are all a quiet bunch. So seems to work out well. 