Ah... Well sounds like whatever they were saying was of somewhat a good nature... Can sometimes be hard here to work such things out just by words alone... Really the true message is the intent of the individuals. If meant in good nature, then... meh... no biggie... Like myself i am male, but dont identify with any sex... fall right in between... Never got sucked into the male social characteristics as i grew up, actually from an observational point of view found it all quit amusing... Which in turn allowed me to create my own identity without influence... So people say i may be of a feminine nature but i dont care... i am fully male and if people want to create false, negative perceptions like that, then sweet, saves me time working out their intent and i can move on...
But can aslo see how it may be frustrating at times... But again... meh... sod em..
I am who i am, either accept, or move on.. Dont have the energy or the time to play such games...
Funny, had a conversation not dissimilar today about whats being happening in my RL this past week or so, thought i was being paranoid.. A chap i have known with a head nod for 17 years sat down and we had a good discussion... seems my worries were justified and i wasn't going fruit loop... Sometimes just hearing things from someone elses lips can put alot of pain into a perspective almost instantly.. Feeling somewhat less of a reject this afternoon... kinda felt good to be listened to and understood for the first time in a long while!