jc6chan I'm going to add my $1 worth in the jar...
Why did homosexuals get labeled as gay in the first place?
I speculate that a long time ago...
a miserable heterosexual, who was having relationship troubles, noticed how happy a homosexual couple looked while they walked down the street hand in hand.
Being so unhappy with his/her life, this stirred feelings of envy in the heterosexual which, in turn, angered him/her.
As the happy couple walked past, the heterosexual couldn't resist the urge to make a snide remark at their apparent bliss and out came the words..."pfft!! Do you have walk about looking so darned gay while the rest of us only have a balnket to keep us warm at night!! !"
At that, the homosexual couple looked at each other and burst into fits of uncontrollable laughter.
This angered the heterosexual further, which drove him to chant, bitterly, over and over in their wake..."Look at the gay couple! Oh just see how gay they can be!!"
...and the rest...as they say...is history...or herstory if you please.
My story?...I work in a high school. If I had a dollar for every time I hear some one calling some thing gay...I know I'd be rich.
I ignore the remark mostly, and if I'm in a situation where it can't be ignored, I remind students of the real meaning of the word gay by saying something such as... "Yes..it cheers me up too
"
What usually happens next is that the student in question finds another word to describe how they feel because they think I've genuinely misunderstood them.
I also must say that I understand what Ferdinand & Pistonhead are saying.
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Nothing much shocks me...so please stop trying...yawn...