Gender Confusion

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Know I know the URL to Namine's site!

My avatar is a girl now. SO STOP THINKING I'M MALE!

I prefer to be gender-neutral.

I'd rather be an 'it' sometimes.

What's more feminine? Sid from Flushed Away, or a Routemaster?

I'm not sure...

Much improved.

Now if we could just get all these lads to quit using Anime girls as Avvies ! !!

I did have Samus as an avatar but I think the avatar most people saw was my Monty Python one. I'm sticking with male avatars, like Locke here.

Routemasters are referred to, as girls and ladies. I could try a Routemaster, for the day. I'll stay with it for a while, if I like it.

On second thought, I think I'll stick with Sid.

does anyone else here not think of users in terms of genders,and just think of users?
Am don't see the gender in a human,and couldn't care less whatever gender someone is,although at a games forum am used to administrate,it took people a while to know am was female because am do not discuss gender specific things,as soon as someone knew it was like, 'omg,she's female,no way'.

Am don't like being called a tomboy either,because it's a way that is often use to say the person does not belong/is a lesser female,
am just don't see anything as having a 'boy only' or 'girl only' rule on it,and it's because am grew up in the blissful ignorance of autism without being human aware,it's a gift in that am not limited into choosing whatever am want,some people are so programmed into gender stereotypes,they miss out on a lot of stuff,eg, females who won't play computer games because they're for 'males'.On forums,am think users shouldn't bother changing their names,pictures or signatures to say what gender they are because its not their fault if someone else mistakes them for being something else,nothing wrong with using what want to use.

I don't use the term Tomboy or butch because they're unnecessary labels but IMHO, they mean - girl who doesn't think in terms of Barbie dolls etc...

I don't see them as lesser females - if anything, I see them as greater females - ones who are of social interest to me. I've never gotten along with Barbie dolls (I'm talking about real life blonde barbie imitators here).

I tend to be a tomboy myself, and I don't have a problem with that. I identify with guys. My avatar happens to be that of a male character. That doesn't bother me. I'm not going to give into out molded ideas about how each gender should be.

I'm a tomboy.