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26 Aug 2025, 1:11 pm

It's good that you're able to voice all of this and that you have people at work who have your back

I hope things can improve for you
It's not pleasant working in a place where you can't do right for doing wrong


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26 Aug 2025, 1:41 pm

babybird wrote:
It's good that you're able to voice all of this and that you have people at work who have your back

I hope things can improve for you
It's not pleasant working in a place where you can't do right for doing wrong


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It's set off my endometriosis, as ever since the panic attack I've been having pains in my ovary area. He's lucky I turn up for work every day.


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26 Aug 2025, 6:21 pm

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I don't really want to resort to passive-aggressive behaviour, although I do sometimes bang on the ceiling with a broom handle when it gets too much (if I can hear their stomping about with earplugs or headphones on), and sometimes they stop. My partner doesn't allow me to do this as it puts little dents in the ceiling, but if I put a hat on the end of the broom handle then it does the same trick but without marking the ceiling. He still doesn't let me.

I know it's not polite, but unfortunately sometimes being passive aggressive ends up being the only option. Definitely try having a civil conversation with your neighbors first, but if they don't quiet down get petty. And don't let your boyfriend stop you.


They'll just twist it round and tell the landlords that we're making noise deliberately because of them making noise they can't control.
It's why I just want to move.

They're making thumping noises up there right now and it's almost 12.30am.


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26 Aug 2025, 6:29 pm

Getting bullied at work, having noisy neighbours living upstairs, and all I faced online with such weirdos on another site, does a person with anxiety need all this?


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26 Aug 2025, 10:08 pm

I overcooked the pie crust I put in the oven to make quiche.



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27 Aug 2025, 2:11 am

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I genuinely hate anything here that's remotely associated with that bureaucratic / legal nonsense in our country, especially when they expect you to do everything perfectly with very low tolerance of mistakes (dare you to not near to a road line while turning left twice...) - And you're not an autonomous error-proof robot but a stressed novice just wanting to be legally able to drive a car.

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This time f**ktard was complaining that I "turned right" while I was supposed to go "straight". Lines are suggesting it's "straight" road and that you can turn left, which crossed few lines (which was that supposed "straight"). Won't care I drove good, won't care road in some places is done weirdly. You shall not pass, go fsck yerself. Now give me another ~50€ so you can wait for another month, stress few days before and get blamed for random BS again.

f**k this ret*d mentality. f**k these bureaucratic ret*ds. f**k this country altogether.

Not sayin' countries of you all are perfect, nor it's worst country to live in (It still can be worse...) but seriously that severely screwed middle-ages mentality of exploitation / demotivation / just doing anything to make you feel belittled that flows here is just beyond me. It's not something I noticed in y'all, from what you tell 'bout yer nations or what I was told by parents about when they used to live abroad.
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27 Aug 2025, 2:16 am

Tamaya wrote:
They'll just twist it round and tell the landlords that we're making noise deliberately because of them making noise they can't control.
It's why I just want to move.

They're making thumping noises up there right now and it's almost 12.30am.

You could go with an annoying sound that mimics something natural instead of music, like the sound of walking, running, etc. Basically, similar noises that they're making but directed upwards to irritate them instead of you. For extra irony you could record them making noise and play that back through a speaker against the ceiling. That way, even if they try to complain about you making noise you can also claim you're "making noise you can't control" since it sounds like normal activity too.



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27 Aug 2025, 3:34 am

VioletKnight wrote:
Tamaya wrote:
They'll just twist it round and tell the landlords that we're making noise deliberately because of them making noise they can't control.
It's why I just want to move.

They're making thumping noises up there right now and it's almost 12.30am.

You could go with an annoying sound that mimics something natural instead of music, like the sound of walking, running, etc. Basically, similar noises that they're making but directed upwards to irritate them instead of you. For extra irony you could record them making noise and play that back through a speaker against the ceiling. That way, even if they try to complain about you making noise you can also claim you're "making noise you can't control" since it sounds like normal activity too.


It's very difficult though to make noise that sounds normal (everyday type noise) when you're below. This is why I want to live on the top floor, because you're less likely to hear everyday noises.

I've just phoned the landlords, as I've been woken by the sound of them moving furniture across the room above, and I didn't have a good night's sleep last night because of them. The landlords said they'll give them a call right now. They'll probably just respond with "we can't help these noises, we've got to do stuff!" Which makes me look like a grass, but with other things that are going on in my life I'm beginning to reach the end of my tether.


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27 Aug 2025, 7:17 am

It's 7am and I'm awake


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27 Aug 2025, 9:11 am

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27 Aug 2025, 9:48 am

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It's 7am and I'm awake

It always could be 5:40 am...


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27 Aug 2025, 10:41 am

Something I read on here that I shall keep to myself; but I'm over it now.


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27 Aug 2025, 3:17 pm

Hetzer wrote:
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It's 7am and I'm awake

It always could be 5:40 am...

Oh don't worry, I was awake at 5:40 am too


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27 Aug 2025, 5:33 pm

I thought my mother had put all the frozen stuff I bought in my freezer when she took me back to my apartment on Monday, but she didn't. I found the frozen salt and pepper chicken wings still in one of the shopping bags today. Of course, they weren't frozen anymore and I could smell them even through the plastic bag they were in, and had to throw them all out. :eew:

How did I not notice they weren't in the freezer when I checked to make sure Mom put the ice cream in there? She did.



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27 Aug 2025, 6:53 pm

WiFi has lost connection for no apparent reason, just at the time of night I like to lay in bed and watch YouTube videos. :x
Now I have to use the 5G one, which is expensive when watching videos online. I pay monthly for my WiFi, it should permanently be connected.


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27 Aug 2025, 11:01 pm

Graeme Le Creep tried to tell me that he couldn't get a fob to let him into a building that he didn't live in. I told him I don't have time and I called him by his name. I also told him not to tell me who I am and what hat to wear.


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