Sylkat wrote:
Dear Grisha, That is one gorgeous cat! Seems to be posing for the camera, too...
Taupey, I am so glad things are better for your family, I hope the house sale will happen only if your mother agrees; many older people have a very strong attachment to their homes. She could feel uprooted or resent being 'moved'...how is your health today..you were groggy earlier....Sylkat
Thank you Sylkat. My mother has improved but I know she won't ever be the same as she was. She reminds me of a child now by the way she says things sometimes and she forgets the common names of alot of things. I know this is part of life and I'm so happy she's still with us.
She's been wanting to sell the two houses (one is right close to the other one and used as a guest house even though it's just as big as the other one.) and all of their land out there for years and move into town so that they would be close to doctors and hospitals and my sister incase of emergencies like this.
He's the one who didn't want to sell but I think now he realizes that it's the best thing to do. It would be so much easier for everyone. I hope they sell it fairly quickly as well because I don't want her back out there and that far from everything.
I'm still unsure when I'm going to go there and or move back there. I might just take my cats and drive back and stay instead of moving everything back there again. I'll just see how things progress. Other family members are going to be helping out as well with different things so that's a big relief.
I think my cold is better today, I haven't taken as much cold medicine. Thank you Sylkat you are really a kind person to ask and say that. How are you doing these days?
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Your Aspie score: 167 of 200
Your neurotypical (non-autistic) score: 35 of 200
You are very likely an Aspie.