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16 Sep 2018, 10:03 am

I actually do have a wish of painting the walls here in a nice and not too dark or bright green colour.

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16 Sep 2018, 10:19 am

Maybe a pale orange colour.

How many days per year do you NOT access the internet, if any?


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16 Sep 2018, 10:39 am

I observe Lent. Dropping the internet is a good idea.

Does anyone know how best to support someone who is sitting shiva?


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16 Sep 2018, 11:58 am

By listening to what they have to say, and offering positive, happy memories of the departed person.

Don’t express undue sympathy or lament. Be yourself.

Note: Being a grief counselor is beyond me.

Do you like the interior of churches?



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16 Sep 2018, 12:01 pm

Yeah, they are often quite pretty.

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16 Sep 2018, 1:32 pm

Yes, very much. They are a beautiful place of solace. I still attend Christmas Eve Mass.

Kortie, (or anyone who knows)
Do you know how to support during shiva from afar? I know that it is not customary to send flowers. Food is appreciated but again, it is afar and I can't deliver. I am refraining from text and phone calls. I imagine I just wait.


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16 Sep 2018, 1:52 pm

No I don’t know anything about sitting Shiva, except that it is customary. In general someone mourning would appreciate a brief message of condolence. There does not need to be excess sympathy, but a kind note expressing the thought that you acknowledge their loss can be very comforting to the recipient.

Cant think of a q, will ask the same as Isabella as someone might know about Shiva...


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16 Sep 2018, 6:19 pm

Probably just a card would do.

Sitting shiva is a relatively nonextravagent affair. Even the food is restrained.

Have you met a Hasidic person? They are religious Jews who wear dark suits and hats.



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16 Sep 2018, 6:48 pm

I have certainly seen them but I don't know any personally.

Do you?

PS Thanks for the shiva information.


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16 Sep 2018, 7:16 pm

There are at least three neighborhoods full of Hasidics in the Borough of Brooklyn.

Is there a Brooklyn in the UK?



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16 Sep 2018, 8:53 pm

I think there's a little tiny hamlet one about 90 minutes from me. But I'm not sure.

Did you ever see Leave it to Beaver?


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16 Sep 2018, 9:05 pm

Yes. Leave it To Beaver is a very good TV show. It was very groundbreaking for its time.

Do you prefer classic television or modern television?


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16 Sep 2018, 9:22 pm

Modern TV shows are of fantastic quality, but there are some classics, like the Twilight Zone, Star Trek, Doctor Who, and Lost in Space that are just unbelievably good.

Every generation has it's titans. So I can't really pick.

I do miss classic TV though, with those old school game shows. Sitting together with family. That is just gone :(


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16 Sep 2018, 9:35 pm

Definitely classic TV.

Some of the shows back in the early days had great scripts, and expanded on modern, heavy themes. The problem was that there were very few “minority” characters who had leading roles until the late 1960s.

Did you ever watch black-and-white TV?



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16 Sep 2018, 9:43 pm

I've watched a lot of black and white TV and my family borrowed a small black and white TV set when we were getting our coloured TV set fixed for a few months when I was 6.

Have you ever owned a black and white TV set?


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16 Sep 2018, 9:44 pm

Does anyone on WP love Six Feet Under as much as I do? Anyone? Anyone? Bueller??



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