Karigani wrote:
Kain is a different person, yes. Someone who defended her 'cause she was sick of everything on WP. Like most of you on WP didn't (defend her, that is).
WP is supposed to be a support site. There's little support here. She asked for help on her life, you flame her. Talk about support. Talk about sharing the love. Talk about helping her.
You people are so quick to judge someone you really didn't know. Sure, she spammed. It's because she was fed up. Some people may call her immature, but honestly, who cares? Telling her to 'get a life' or 'see a shrink' IS NOT HELPING. Is that clear enough for you?
I'm sorry if I come off as angry... well, no, actually- really I'm not. I am angry. I am angry because Ashleigh is my best friend, and she's just so... misunderstood. She doesn't really have anyone to look out for her. She asks for help and feels like she's being threatened, almost. She tries to explain something, and tries to get her point across, but you don't seem to listen.
I'm not sticking up for her just to stick up for her because she's my friend. I'm sticking up for her because I believe that a lot of you on WP were really, really inconsiderate. And it really just gets my knickers in a twist, you know? I cannot stand rudeness without reason.
And heh, I know some of you are going to attack me on this one. Rudeness without reason?, you're going to say. What do you call her spamming up all the boards?, you're going to say. And you know what? I don't care. I don't care, 'cause it was a last resort sort of thing. Ashleigh legitimately has Asperger's, and people with Asperger's ACT DIFFERENTLY. Seeing as this is WRONG PLANET, a community for people with ASPERGER'S SYNDROME, you'd be able to UNDERSTAND THAT. The judgment is insane and disgusting and wrong. You don't know her. You. don't. know. her. You don't know where she comes from, or the life she leads, and everything else. She has a temper- don't we all? She gets depressed. It's because she's a human being, and her situation is... well, it really hurts me to see her living the way she is.
You guys just assume she's a callous jerk of some kind that goes around and back stabs people and spams up the place. It's not fair... fair is subjective, yeah, but in my humble opinion, this is just... agh, I can't even explain how annoyed and angry it makes me.
Getting to a point? I, as well as she, felt like a lot of people here needlessly attacked her and/or talked badly about her behind her back. I think she deserved to be treated better, and you guys could have been more understanding to her condition.
But you weren't, so whatever. Just thought you guys should hear an outsider's opinion. Peace.
Thank you, Karigani. I completely agree.
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