Yes, that's quite true Butterfly.. Actually, I recall someone here on wrongplanet once said,"That some people tend to have a charismatic persona which allows them to attract more people around them though, for others one has to do as best as he/she can to acquire friendship in sincere/meaningful manner.
Butterfly, would it be okay if I sincerely ask you to be my friend. I know that sounds weird but, I try not to pester anyone or make friendship attempts which could be seen as malignant i.e hidden motives?
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