IdahoRose wrote:
I asked my dad for something, he snapped at me and hurt my feelings. My mom had to make him apologize, because he sees no point in "talking lovely" to people since my mom is the one who is supposed to do that (according to him). I was pretty upset about it, and my parents became exasperated at my display of negative emotion. It's an unwritten rule in our house that happiness is the only thing you're allowed to express. Negative emotions ruin the mood for everyone else (my mom more or less told me this once) and so you're not allowed to express them.
well previously I would have said that is ardey dardey new age get over yourself new age hipster American though having being dx /medicated for anxiety I now understand , sadly if you had a $%^ upbringing /head injurys your all ways going to suffer from it, yes it upsets me when parents are mean to their "disruptive" child in a supermarket in fact I wonder if said child has autism and is suffering from sensory issues , also if they know the damage they are doing ....
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