No one on mom's side whether they still live in Seoul Korea, or in Seattle, called us to wish us Merry Christmas or Happy New Year. Never received cards from anyone on mom's side.
Dad's side I always get Christmas cards either mailed to me or given in person when we go visit dad's family. Well by not exchanging gifts, in a way I save more money. When you say immediate family, do you mean just your siblings and parents? Do you buy gifts for your aunts, uncles, cousins and grandparents? I have no siblings. I just think it's strange that my aunt says no more gift exchanges. My aunt bought gifts for her daughter and grandkids, but that's about it.
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Anna
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