mrdtlv wrote:
Why do white people "Anglo-Saxons" Focus so much on skin color? I saw a posting where gentlemen wanted to know if an avatar of a guy with makeup on as a black face minstrel was ok to post. I thought to myself would an avatar of a furnace chamber with Jewish people lined up in front be ok as well because I thought it looked cool? We do not know what a swastika means to a Jewish person or the amount of suffering endured by the African Americans...How can people find the determent of others be amusing in any fashion? Being African American and having many races in my blood line keeps me completely oblivious to taking race or gender as a factor when communicating or assuming someone’s capabilities, professionalism or otherwise. You know there are people of all nations that come to this site. It is a privilege to be able to discuss our problems and what we have to deal with when it comes to AS. Why not be united in that common likeness and grow from one another experiences. You never know how some of these posts can negatively affect our fellow HUMAN who has to deal with the many complexities of our plight. Hence the situation that took place in the United State University of Virginia, and hence the type of situations that cause people to feel that it is better to kill themselves in an effort to kill others.
Please tell me that this basic concept has passed some of your thought process?
mrldtv, you misunderstand me entirely. This has nothing to do with race, it has to do with culture. I agree that our skin color is not what bonds us together, it is our experience as humans. But within that, there are other factors that bind us together as well. Skin color should not be a dividing line, but culture DOES make a person relate to another more in one area. And of course in other ways I share more in common with a black American than a white Briton, because we are both Americans, whereas white britons come from another country. I am just pointing out one area that I like England for, and that is its culture. I would have no problem with an Asian or an African coming on here and talking about a love for their ethnic culture.
There is even a culture here at wrongplanet. We have aspergers or autism here and so we share something in common. I relate more to some people here than NTs, even though I share the human experience with NTs as well.
But it seems that it is politically incorrect these days for a white person to talk about being proud of their heritage--I'm not talking about being proud of ones skin color, no one should be proud of how much melanin they have in their skin or the color of their eyes---I'm talking culture. But these days many people act like being white is something to apologize for, and as a corollary, culture that originates with whites is also something that shouldn't be proud of. But then we have black history month---I don't have a problem with it, but it is an example of pointing out peoples skin color as something to be proud of as a corollary to the persons accomplishments, rather than pointing out the person as an American or a human being.
All cultures can be proud of themselves and have a love for their heritage