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Kiprobalhato
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07 Oct 2018, 11:12 am

serious question.


i don't know if i've come across another website where the median age seems to be as high as it is here.


it is because this is a web forum and most younger people have moved on to different platforms? is autism discussion just inherently a matter for the aged?


or what? i want to know because i seriously feel out of place here and i'm not even that young.


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07 Oct 2018, 12:13 pm

Because it is a forum is one probable reason. Probably because WP has been around the longtime members who were young have grown old. Many members because they are autistic stay out of loyalty, habit etc. Because it is arguably the largest online autistic space it is going to draw a larger group of people.


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07 Oct 2018, 12:35 pm

Good question! Let me change my diaper, have a Boost Plus, and think on that awhile.


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07 Oct 2018, 12:44 pm

There’s lots of young people on WP.

If you go into something like the music subforum, you might find more young people than in PPR.



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07 Oct 2018, 1:31 pm

I have reported this thread for being ageist :P


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07 Oct 2018, 1:51 pm

Perhaps a mix of people using trendy platforms and using autism as a slur therefor painting it in a negative light, thus the younger generation is not being as open with it as a result? Maybe I am completely wrong, regardless I am sorry you feel out of place. I don't care how old you are, I think you are awesome and I am glad you are here. I have no doubt many more feel the same way about you Kip.


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07 Oct 2018, 1:52 pm

I've been here six years. Having seen some ups and downs in my life (though lately my life has been pretty stable), I don't intend on leaving here. I'm 31 now, but yet I don't feel 31.


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07 Oct 2018, 2:13 pm

Like someone else said, I don't really care how old people are, unless they're like 13 and I have to remember not to swear or say inappropriate things, and at least appear like a decent human being.

My chronological age doesn't affect my immaturity, at least. :jester:


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07 Oct 2018, 3:13 pm

If all other factors were equal, a bias towards older members would be expected. Excluding carers/parents, who are presumably adults anyway, only people older than the age at which they first identified as (possibly) autistic are likely to become members. The technology and language skills required to use a forum also bias the membership towards those with less severe intellectual and language disabilities; precisely those for whom diagnosis is more likely to come later in life. People who stay around for a while don't get any younger while they're here, either!


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07 Oct 2018, 3:25 pm

Quite so, Trog. I must stay that I am feeling less and less like staying around, the Trumpian level of nastiness has increased so much and has become such a destructive influence, this is not what I joined this site to experience, and the Trumpism combined with the sexism, racism, misogyny, ageism and general hate virus has become so toxic that its a health hazard now - at least to and for me - not a support site.



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07 Oct 2018, 3:34 pm

Most people here are not of the Trumpian persuasion.

I’m not even sure if the over 30s are in the majority. Though they do have influence more than their actual numbers would suggest.



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07 Oct 2018, 3:48 pm

Trogluddite wrote:
If all other factors were equal, a bias towards older members would be expected. Excluding carers/parents, who are presumably adults anyway, only people older than the age at which they first identified as (possibly) autistic are likely to become members. The technology and language skills required to use a forum also bias the membership towards those with less severe intellectual and language disabilities; precisely those for whom diagnosis is more likely to come later in life. People who stay around for a while don't get any younger while they're here, either!

That is an excellent point, you always seem to have interesting points of view and your logic is flawless. I am always happy to see your point of view.


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07 Oct 2018, 4:01 pm

Wish we could clone you into a thousand more members T.



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07 Oct 2018, 4:05 pm

It's because I've been here for 14 years and I don't plan on leaving. I don't have to wear a mask for anybody who posts on WP. I can be myself all the time, here. People here understand my moods that come with most holidays except for Christmas. I love Christmas. This is the place where I took off a mask two years ago, in January.


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07 Oct 2018, 4:11 pm

You enhance this place with continual goodwill CR



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07 Oct 2018, 4:12 pm

^I remember being so happy when that song came on the radio when I was a kid.


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