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16 Dec 2018, 5:36 am

Is there anyone here who ever thought that the n word was just a slang word that black people used to refer to their friends? I used to think so. Didn't realize that it was a racial slur.



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16 Dec 2018, 9:16 am

Nope. But, I was born in the early 80s. Are you younger? I could see how someone born later might think that, based on rap music.



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16 Dec 2018, 9:18 am

I was born and raised in Georgia so I've always known it was a racial insult.



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16 Dec 2018, 10:10 am

No, but I had a black friend who used the word a lot.



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16 Dec 2018, 10:26 am

NO. I've known it was a bad word describing black people ever since I asked my mom when I was a kid a long time ago.



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16 Dec 2018, 11:41 am

I think every1 knows it's a racial insult



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16 Dec 2018, 12:00 pm

No I knew that it was a slur, but at first when I was a kid, I thought the P word was just slang for Pakistani.


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16 Dec 2018, 2:07 pm

TW1ZTY wrote:
I was born and raised in Georgia so I've always known it was a racial insult.

Ditto.



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16 Dec 2018, 2:25 pm

I also thought that "fag(got)" was just an insult with the same meaning as "loser".



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16 Dec 2018, 2:30 pm

Ligma wrote:
I think every1 knows it's a racial insult


I didn't grow up around racist people so I only ever heard the word used by black people to refer to each other.



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16 Dec 2018, 2:31 pm

There's two N words. One that ends with an ER is the one that is a rational slur. The one that ends with an A is the one that African Americans use to refer to each other as.


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16 Dec 2018, 2:56 pm

When black people call each other that word they're only meaning it as playful teasing, but when white people use it they always mean it as a racist insult to put those people down.

It's just like the "b" word. Some females will call themselves that as a joke amongst each other but when a man calls a woman that word he's being a sexist jerk and putting her down as a woman.

Sometimes it's the way a word is used that matters more than the actual meaning of the word.



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16 Dec 2018, 3:11 pm

TW1ZTY wrote:
When black people call each other that word they're only meaning it as playful teasing, but when white people use it they always mean it as a racist insult to put those people down.

It's just like the "b" word. Some females will call themselves that as a joke amongst each other but when a man calls a woman that word he's being a sexist jerk and putting her down as a woman.

Sometimes it's the way a word is used that matters more than the actual meaning of the word.


It's like the word Asperger's. It's acceptable for aspies to make fun of how it sounds, but if an NT were to do so it would be offensive.



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16 Dec 2018, 3:41 pm

NewTime wrote:
TW1ZTY wrote:
When black people call each other that word they're only meaning it as playful teasing, but when white people use it they always mean it as a racist insult to put those people down.

It's just like the "b" word. Some females will call themselves that as a joke amongst each other but when a man calls a woman that word he's being a sexist jerk and putting her down as a woman.

Sometimes it's the way a word is used that matters more than the actual meaning of the word.


It's like the word Asperger's. It's acceptable for aspies to make fun of how it sounds, but if an NT were to do so it would be offensive.


Yeah good point. :)



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16 Dec 2018, 4:43 pm

Yes

A lot of precious lil "people" call me"n***a"

Several times a week

Usually they say "n***a" , not in an angry or respectful way

Kind of condescending, but not dramatic

Do not remember a single time someone called me "Chinese"

Chinese

Usually the precious lil "people" appear black


Although they did not give me their genealogy report


The fifth grade teacher said she was black, but she looked more pale than white



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16 Dec 2018, 4:55 pm

My dad was once referred to as an "island n*****" by my racist uncle because was Hawaiian.

I thought it was a pretty stupid insult. I mean Hawaiians aren't even black. :roll: