Romofan wrote:
Hey, I read a book about Bettie Page as well! And not for the pictures

Yeah, she was a gifted gal who could have made her mark in a totally different way.
But her looks are so breathtaking, I am glad that she was able to share her beauty with others.
me too (not to share, but it conveys a certain irrepressible spirit too, which i think women can find inspiring)
i don't mean irrepressible in the cutesy way but more like, determination to get on and not be bogged down.
but other people who later were found to have been molested as children,
became famous for those type of things, like pamela anderson, so i think in that sense it is still 'bogged down' by the trauma - at times, surely - but in order to repair it - and turning it into something else...something empowering perhaps..
intense shame of a victim vs. taking control, being confident, proud,
experiencing something the opposite of the trauma via the same body--
to prove to yourself it wasn't you, it was DONE to you.)
of course it can come out in less obvious ways, but i mean..
turning lemons into lemonade..it's a clear example of that.
i guess that's what i like. i don't care about the pictures but the life story
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