Pugly wrote:
I kind of exist outside of the system.
I'm definitely not an Alpha Male. And don't even wish to be like the Alpha.
In a lot of ways I'm not even like the traditional male... I don't like to compete... don't have that constant drive to be the best. Or that constant drive to control, manipulate and use the world for my own purposes.
Or the desire to lead... and tell people what to do.
But I'll stand up for myself. And if I make a decision, I'll be forceful in sticking to it. If I make a commitment to do something, I'm going to try to make sure it happens.
I'm just on a quest to understand everything, and I don't assume I understand something when I really don't. This comes off as weak, and un-Alpha male. The Alpha male just does stuff, he lets other people worry about if he's right or wrong. Whether he understands the situation or not, what he's doing is the right way to do it.
Well said. Your post comes the closest, by far, to myself that any other post on this thread.
I too don't like competing. I also don't understand why men are supposed to persue women. Why can't women persue men? There is nothing shameful about a strong woman!
I also loathe sports and find it very boring. I do like politics, however.
I also tend not to brag. I find bragging to be embarrassing. I remember my grandfather bragged about me a lot when I was around 5 years old and I looked down in embarrassment when he did so.
I also don't put myself down, although if I am not good in a certain area, I will just admit it off the cuff. Likewise, if I am good at something, I will acknowledge it, but I do it in more of a matter-of-fact manner.