Parents say fake online 'friend' led to girl's suicide

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18 Nov 2007, 3:35 am

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DARDENNE PRAIRIE, Missouri (AP) -- Megan Meier thought she had made a new friend in cyberspace when a cute teenage boy named Josh contacted her on MySpace and began exchanging messages with her.
Megan, a 13-year-old who suffered from depression and attention deficit disorder, corresponded with Josh for more than a month before he abruptly ended their friendship, telling her he had heard she was cruel.
The next day Megan committed suicide. Her family learned later that Josh never actually existed; he was created by members of a neighborhood family that included a former friend of Megan's.
Now Megan's parents hope the people who made the fraudulent profile on the social networking web site will be prosecuted, and they are seeking legal changes to safeguard children on the Internet.
The girl's mother, Tina Meier, said she doesn't think anyone involved intended for her daughter to kill herself.
"But when adults are involved and continue to screw with a 13-year-old, with or without mental problems, it is absolutely vile," she told the Suburban Journals of Greater St. Louis, which first reported on the case.
Tina Meier said law enforcement officials told her the case did not fit into any law. But sheriff's officials have not closed the case and pledged to consider new evidence if it emerges.
Megan Meier hanged herself in her bedroom on October 16, 2006, and died the next day. She was described as a "bubbly, goofy" girl who loved spending time with her friends, watching movies and fishing with her dad.
Megan had been on medication, but had been upbeat before her death, her mother said, after striking up a relationship on MySpace with Josh Evans about six weeks before her death.
Josh told her he was born in Florida and had recently moved to the nearby community of O'Fallon. He said he was homeschooled, and didn't yet have a phone number in the area to give her. Megan's parents said she received a message from him on October 15 of last year, essentially saying he didn't want to be her friend anymore, that he had heard she wasn't nice to her friends.
The next day, as Megan's mother headed out the door to take another daughter to the orthodontist, she knew Megan was upset about Internet messages. She asked Megan to log off. Users on MySpace must be at least 14, though Megan was not when she opened her account. A MySpace spokeswoman did not return calls seeking comment.
Someone using Josh's account was sending cruel messages. Then, Megan called her mother, saying electronic bulletins were being posted about her, saying things like, "Megan Meier is a slut. Megan Meier is fat."
Megan's mother, who monitored her daughter's online communications, returned home and said she was shocked at the vulgar language her own daughter was sending. She told her daughter how upset she was about it.
Megan ran upstairs, and her father, Ron, tried to tell her everything would be fine. About 20 minutes later, she was found in her bedroom. She died the next day.
Her father said he found a message the next day from Josh, which he said law enforcement authorities have not been able to retrieve. It told the girl she was a bad person and the world would be better without her, he has said.
Another parent, who learned of the MySpace account from her own daughter who had access to the Josh profile, told Megan's parents about the hoax in a counselor's office about six weeks after Megan died. That's when they learned Josh was imaginary, they said.
The woman who created the fake profile has not been charged with a crime. She allegedly told the St. Charles County Sheriff's Department she created Josh's profile because she wanted to gain Megan's confidence to know what Megan was saying about her own child online.
The mother from down the street told police that she, her daughter and another person all typed and monitored the communication between the fictitious boy and Megan.
A person who answered the door at the family's house told an Associated Press reporter on Friday afternoon that they had been advised not to comment.
Megan's parents had been storing a foosball table for the family that created the MySpace character. Six weeks after Megan's death, they learned the other family had created the profile and responded by destroying the foosball table, dumping it on the neighbors' driveway and encouraging them to move away.
Megan's parents are now separated and plan to divorce.

Aldermen in Dardenne Prairie, a community of about 7,000 residents about 35 miles from St. Louis, have proposed a new ordinance related to child endangerment and Internet harassment. It could come before city leaders on Wednesday.
"Is this enough?" Mayor Pam Fogarty said Friday. "No, not by any stretch of the imagination, but it's something, and you have to start somewhere."



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18 Nov 2007, 3:51 am

It's bad enough when kids cook up schemes such as this one, but truly heinous when adults who should have known better do these things. :twisted: An anti-harassment law would indeed be a good start here.


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18 Nov 2007, 5:23 am

I don't even have words to describe how that makes me feel. "Fu**** up" comes to mind... :cry:



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18 Nov 2007, 8:44 am

:evil: That is disgusting! Those people (adults!) who made the fake profile should know better! I have seem my share of feuds and politics between families but this is rediculous! "You are an evil person and the world would be better off without you?" Were they TRYING to get the girl to kill herself? You never say that to anyone, let alone a person with a history of depression! This makes me feel lucky I haven't delt with such cruel people! I feel so sorry for the family!



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18 Nov 2007, 11:27 am

Her father said he found a message the next day from Josh, which he said law enforcement authorities have not been able to retrieve. It told the girl she was a bad person and the world would be better without her, he has said.



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18 Nov 2007, 12:01 pm

I heard about this on the news the other day. It's appalling.



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18 Nov 2007, 3:15 pm

That's awful; the poor girl. Such people suck.


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18 Nov 2007, 4:00 pm

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18 Nov 2007, 5:16 pm

Sick. Adults are worse than kids some days...I see it in my son's school...you've got mothers acting with the same mentality of their 6 yr. olds. :cry:


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18 Nov 2007, 5:46 pm

That is BAD. They should lock them all up for however long it takes to learn what makes them tick.



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18 Nov 2007, 6:07 pm

I know how she felt. I'd kill myself if One-winged-angel turned out to be fake. (he'd have to be pretty sick, cuz we've been talking for over a eyar, and never once has he 'slipped' from his character. he's real. :) ) Thats pretty sick what they did.



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18 Nov 2007, 6:13 pm

Horrible. Some people are fragile to emotional hurt, and sick scum exploit that.


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18 Nov 2007, 6:19 pm

Is it the humiliation? Or the loss? Probably both. It would be for me.



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18 Nov 2007, 6:22 pm

Ana54 wrote:
Is it the humiliation? Or the loss? Probably both. It would be for me.
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20 Nov 2007, 4:28 pm

I'm not sure how to characterize the behavior of the individuals (I didn't use the term adults because I didn't see any adult actions) who perpetrated this heinous hoax . This was a house full of adolescents , hateful adolescents I might add , who unfortunately had no 'adult' supervision . If we were speaking of adults I would say that knowing that their negligent (fraudulent) behavior resulted in the death of a 13 year old would haunt them the rest of their lives and be punishment enough . But , I think the evidence clearly shows that the perpetrators are sociopathic , emotionally stunted individuals . I'll bet we see them in the news again .