Erisad wrote:
TeaEarlGreyHot wrote:
There are many reasons not to give birth in a hospital.
It costs money? >.>
well, this was 16 years ago, so maybe things are better now. but back then, i had this idea that childbirth was treated like a medical emergency.
you had to stay in a lying position, with these straps across your belly to monitor the baby. and you could not eat or drink. you were shaved in the pubic area. you were cut to prevent tearing in the perineum (it's cleaner, but not everyone rips so it was not always necessary). the doctors and nurses didn't really stay with you, and you could only have one person in the room with you. birthing centres were still pretty new in my city, so it was usually just a cold hospital room. there was always a sense that the doctors would pucsh the drugs, and push the c-sections.
instead i was eating spring rolls and drinking ginger ale, with my entire family all around. i alternated between using a birthing stool and a bathtub. i could lean back into my husband's arms when it really hurt (i cracked my tailbone, like so many women do). the midwife (and her 2 colleagues, who helped when it got crazy) checked my daughter's heartbeat at certain intervals. i was at home, where i was comfortable.
but i could give you all the reasons in the world, and the truth is, i was afraid of hospitals.
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