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Do you like them?
No, too big. 25%  25%  [ 75 ]
No, too small. 12%  12%  [ 37 ]
Yup, they're juuuuuuuuuuust right. (Lol Goldilocks boobs) 35%  35%  [ 105 ]
I'm a dude/just wanna see the results. 27%  27%  [ 82 ]
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30 Aug 2010, 9:46 pm

TeaEarlGreyHot wrote:
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Boobs make women look like cows. I don't see how people can find that attractive...


Breasts are there to provide nourishment to offspring. I happen to think that's very attractive.

That is the purpose of boobs. It annoys me when women worry too much about the size of their breasts, and spend a lot of money trying to 'fix' them. Men being attracted to breasts is a strange concept, though I guess it does make sense in a way (seeing as breast milk is in most cases the first thing the baby eats, and it 'provides nourishment' to them, as you said).


I think the obsession with perfect breasts is rather silly, tbh.

And no, it's not because breastmilk is the first thing we drink. It's actually quite sexy to a lot of men to watch their wife breastfeed their child. Many men find nurturing behavior (and by proxy the body parts that provide it) to be very erotic.

thae idea of that makes me nauseous. my husband did not find my breastfeeding or nurturing sexy, which i am happy about. we were well-matched in that regard. he also preferred my boobs when they were not providing milk. but i didn't find any of that sexy for myself either, though i know lots of women do.


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30 Aug 2010, 9:51 pm

I don't think breastfeeding is sexy at all. It's a lovely bonding session between mother and child and to defile it with erotic fantasies is just wrong. D:



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30 Aug 2010, 10:15 pm

What do you think made breastfeeding possible?

One day a guy is sucking your tits 9 months later his baby is and assuming he sticks around he should appreciate that you are nursing his child regardless of whether it makes him just love you or whether it makes him love you and do it again.


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30 Aug 2010, 10:18 pm

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What do you think made breastfeeding possible?

One day a guy is sucking your tits 9 months later his baby is and assuming he sticks around he should appreciate that you are nursing his child regardless of whether it makes him just love you or whether it makes him love you and do it again.

appreciating and admiring is different from finding it sexual. it is a beautiful experience to me, and not at all sexy. my sex life did not suffer, but he preferred me in the non-nursing (and also non-pregnant) state. i was in total agreement with that.


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30 Aug 2010, 10:19 pm

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What do you think made breastfeeding possible?

One day a guy is sucking your tits 9 months later his baby is and assuming he sticks around he should appreciate that you are nursing his child regardless of whether it makes him just love you or whether it makes him love you and do it again.


Sucking tits isn't what makes babies. Even I know that. :lol:

It still would be disturbing trying to feed your baby and some random creeper is staring at your chest. Then again, I'd probably never breastfeed in public, which would mean staying home until the child's weaned. D:



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30 Aug 2010, 10:20 pm

Erisad wrote:
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What do you think made breastfeeding possible?

One day a guy is sucking your tits 9 months later his baby is and assuming he sticks around he should appreciate that you are nursing his child regardless of whether it makes him just love you or whether it makes him love you and do it again.


Sucking tits isn't what makes babies. Even I know that. :lol:

It still would be disturbing trying to feed your baby and some random creeper is staring at your chest. Then again, I'd probably never breastfeed in public, which would mean staying home until the child's weaned. D:
i did breastfeed in public, but i was so discreet that people could walk right up to me and not know what i was doing - seriously. i never ever gave someone a flash of boob.


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30 Aug 2010, 10:22 pm

hyperlexian wrote:
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What do you think made breastfeeding possible?

One day a guy is sucking your tits 9 months later his baby is and assuming he sticks around he should appreciate that you are nursing his child regardless of whether it makes him just love you or whether it makes him love you and do it again.


Sucking tits isn't what makes babies. Even I know that. :lol:

It still would be disturbing trying to feed your baby and some random creeper is staring at your chest. Then again, I'd probably never breastfeed in public, which would mean staying home until the child's weaned. D:
i did breastfeed in public, but i was so discreet that people could walk right up to me and not know what i was doing - seriously. i never ever gave someone a flash of boob.


Lol. I'll need to know your secrets about that one day. XD



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30 Aug 2010, 10:24 pm

Sucking tits does happen in bed during sex. That plus biting, squeezing and rubbing. One of my exs could orgasm from simply playing with her left nipple, no touching of her genitalia at all.

Tits are tooootally non-sexual organs.


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30 Aug 2010, 10:25 pm

Erisad wrote:
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What do you think made breastfeeding possible?

One day a guy is sucking your tits 9 months later his baby is and assuming he sticks around he should appreciate that you are nursing his child regardless of whether it makes him just love you or whether it makes him love you and do it again.


Sucking tits isn't what makes babies. Even I know that. :lol:

It still would be disturbing trying to feed your baby and some random creeper is staring at your chest. Then again, I'd probably never breastfeed in public, which would mean staying home until the child's weaned. D:
i did breastfeed in public, but i was so discreet that people could walk right up to me and not know what i was doing - seriously. i never ever gave someone a flash of boob.


Lol. I'll need to know your secrets about that one day. XD

i learned from 'la leche league' - this group that promotes breastfeeding. lots of women get angry at the idea of feeling like they MUST be discreet for social values or whatever. but i didn't mind because i honestly didn't want to ever accidentally see someone else's boobs in a public place either. too awkward.


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30 Aug 2010, 10:27 pm

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Sucking tits does happen in bed during sex. That plus biting, squeezing and rubbing. One of my exs could orgasm from simply playing with her left nipple, no touching of her genitalia at all.

Tits are tooootally non-sexual organs.
just because they are used as sexual organs doesn't mean they need to be sexual objects while an innocent baby is suckling at them. it's a lovely time between mother and child. no sexuality necessary there, at least to me.


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30 Aug 2010, 10:28 pm

hyperlexian wrote:
Erisad wrote:
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What do you think made breastfeeding possible?

One day a guy is sucking your tits 9 months later his baby is and assuming he sticks around he should appreciate that you are nursing his child regardless of whether it makes him just love you or whether it makes him love you and do it again.


Sucking tits isn't what makes babies. Even I know that. :lol:

It still would be disturbing trying to feed your baby and some random creeper is staring at your chest. Then again, I'd probably never breastfeed in public, which would mean staying home until the child's weaned. D:
i did breastfeed in public, but i was so discreet that people could walk right up to me and not know what i was doing - seriously. i never ever gave someone a flash of boob.


Lol. I'll need to know your secrets about that one day. XD

i learned from 'la leche league' - this group that promotes breastfeeding. lots of women get angry at the idea of feeling like they MUST be discreet for social values or whatever. but i didn't mind because i honestly didn't want to ever accidentally see someone else's boobs in a public place either. too awkward.


Yeah, that makes sense.

@Pistonhead- That was a bit more information than I would have liked. D:



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30 Aug 2010, 10:34 pm

Oh good lord! I didn't say men find the baby sexual, and from the way some of you responded, that appears to be exactly the way you took it.

There is absolutely nothing wrong with a husband finding his wife's nurturing side sexy. Haven't you ever wanted to just jump your man for doing something manly or doing a chore around the house? It's the same damn thing. He's attracted to his WIFE.

I think anyone that thought anything different from what I said has some issues.


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30 Aug 2010, 10:42 pm

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Oh good lord! I didn't say men find the baby sexual, and from the way some of you responded, that appears to be exactly the way you took it.

There is absolutely nothing wrong with a husband finding his wife's nurturing side sexy. Haven't you ever wanted to just jump your man for doing something manly or doing a chore around the house? It's the same damn thing. He's attracted to his WIFE.

I think anyone that thought anything different from what I said has some issues.
no, i didn't say that about men finding the baby sexual. but why would a man find it sexy for a woman to breastfeed? i would have been seriously disturbed if my husband had been turned on when i was breatfeeding, because i do conside the act to be a bonding moment between mother and child. the father can bond too, but adding sexuality is definitely weird to me.

i do understand that not all women feel that way. to each his/her own. all i can express is how i feel about it, between my husband and myself.

i don't actually get turned on by my husband doing 'manly' things either. i find him attractive when he is considerate, or loving towards me, or even just when i am randomly horny, to name a few situations. but it's not like i want to jump him when he chops wood or fixes the fence. i don't work like that.


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30 Aug 2010, 10:46 pm

Leave men out, they don't deserve to bond with their children they should hit women, hit men, do drugs, join gangs, sell drugs and end up in prison away from their children. Not bond with them!


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30 Aug 2010, 10:49 pm

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Leave men out, they don't deserve to bond with their children they should hit women, hit men, do drugs, join gangs, sell drugs and end up in prison away from their children. Not bond with them!


They can bond with their children in different ways. Granted, I don't know many men who choose to do this anymore so I can't list any examples but I'm sure it's possible. D:



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30 Aug 2010, 11:00 pm

hyperlexian wrote:
TeaEarlGreyHot wrote:
Oh good lord! I didn't say men find the baby sexual, and from the way some of you responded, that appears to be exactly the way you took it.

There is absolutely nothing wrong with a husband finding his wife's nurturing side sexy. Haven't you ever wanted to just jump your man for doing something manly or doing a chore around the house? It's the same damn thing. He's attracted to his WIFE.

I think anyone that thought anything different from what I said has some issues.
no, i didn't say that about men finding the baby sexual. but why would a man find it sexy for a woman to breastfeed? i would have been seriously disturbed if my husband had been turned on when i was breatfeeding, because i do conside the act to be a bonding moment between mother and child. the father can bond too, but adding sexuality is definitely weird to me.

i do understand that not all women feel that way. to each his/her own. all i can express is how i feel about it, between my husband and myself.

i don't actually get turned on by my husband doing 'manly' things either. i find him attractive when he is considerate, or loving towards me, or even just when i am randomly horny, to name a few situations. but it's not like i want to jump him when he chops wood or fixes the fence. i don't work like that.


I find my husband very sexy when he's being loving and silly with my children. It's the same thing.


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