Callista wrote:
What about the people who can't be diagnosed anymore because they're not impaired? There are plenty of those.
I'm going to share. My journey started with my son. When he was 1 year old it was suggested to me that he was speech delayed so I requested an evaluation through early intervention. He was qualified for services and we ultimately were offered the chance to send him to one of maybe two ABA therapy schools in the state. After four months a lot of worry and plenty of tears my husband and I removed him from the school. They were not helping him, he was becoming angry and withdrawn. The were not listening either and treated us like a couple of yahoos that knew nothing about autism. I was just in the process of realizing that it was what was "wrong" with me for years. I digress though -
When you take certain standardized tests such as the SAT, there are prep courses you can take. The sole purpose of the course is to train you to take the test and pass it. You learn a lot of vocabulary and tricks for what to work on and what not to. It doesn't make you smarter and it's useless unless you're taking the SAT. That was essentially what this school did. They used discreet trials to train the children how to preform the skills that are tested (and I can't recall the name of that test for the life of me). They weren't teaching him life skills or coping. They were just teaching him to not look autistic for a test.
You can also learn to look less like you're impacted - no one has ever suggested to me that I was autistic outside of another aspie, and we understood each other on a very different level. People generally think that I am eccentric and hyper-sensitive. My bosses were shocked at how much clients liked me - I had years of customer service training and extensive experience working with irate people. I also learned a sense of humor in the last seven years or so. But those meetings drain the life out of me because I have to pay such close attention to everything from when there is appropriate pause the signals I can speak without interrupting to maintaining a friendly yet even tone of voice. This will always be my life. It gets a little easier as I get older, but it's never effortless and it never will be.
As far as it going away? I think not. I'm more inclined to believe that this is where everyone ultimately is headed. We're turning into a more technical society. People like to text more than talk. There isn't context expression or emphasis in a typed message that is conveyed with a voice. The most difficult part of having autism at this point is dealing with the abundance of ignorance being propagated by well meaning people.
Yes, I talk WAYYY too much. Sorry!