melmaclorelai wrote:
I never learned how to ride a bike without training wheels. I didn't want to learn. I never actually enjoyed riding a bike and as a child I had an extremely cautious and anxious nature, which made me unwilling to try most things.
I'm very cautious and anxious too. I never even managed to ride a bike with the training wheels. I would lose my balance.
People have tried to get me to do things in the past but I know better now. They may not believe that I can't do it but I know better than them what I am capable of and they aren't the ones who would suffer with the consequences of pain and possibly medical bills if I get hurt.
For example, riding a horse. I can't stay on at faster than a walk yet there are people that would want me to ride a horse. I've had people ask me to go on a small boat/raft with them on the river (probably without a life preserver) when I can barely swim.
I can't ride a bike either but they have a hard time believing that.
I've known people that were experienced at and good at bike and horse riding and still got hurt pretty bad.